Sad, sad, cult story.... not Jw!

by AK - Jeff 8 Replies latest jw experiences

  • AK - Jeff
    AK - Jeff

    Having my daily brew today, and reading Diane Wilson's book - Awakening of a JW. The barista overhears a conversation I am having with a regular there and asks what 'cult' I had exited. I told her JW and we had a nice conversation.

    She tells me her husband's family was in a cult in Pennsylvania called the 'Temple.....' something. He was four years old when he was run over by a mower and had his arm cut-off. This cult his parents were in did not believe in use of medicine, and so his dad had to decide whether he would call the ambulance or let his son die in accordance with the cult's beliefs. He called the ambulance and his son lived and is now married to this barista.

    Reminded me of some I have come to know on this forum and others that lost children due to the JW cult's postion on blood, vaccines, organ transpantation, etc over the years.

    She said her husband feels a sense of something good from his loss of a limb, in that the cult 'shunned' his father and family after that, and eventually most of them got out of the cult. So his injury served a great purpose in his mind, although it creates anger at times for him.

    I was moved by the experience - and reminded that there are a lot of cult and cultlike groups out there. Some every bit as dangerous, or maybe is some ways - more dangerous than JW.

    Thought I would share.

    Jeff

  • greendawn
    greendawn

    Yes Jeff there are a lot of cults out there that are just as bad or even worse than the JWs and the net is full of interesting stories regarding the activities of such cults.

    I was recently reading the story of a girl giving out leaflets for a cult, after some hours she was tired and sat down to rest for a few minutes. Her overseer came saw her resting, began yelling, and punished her with an added 2.5 hours of work above the day's quota. When she complained she was told she had to apologise to the overseer for offending him.

  • BluesBrother
    BluesBrother
    and reminded that there are a lot of cult and cultlike groups out there

    Yes but not many have 6 million members around the world, knocking on doors every day. I guess that is what makes the J W's a threat, even though there beliefs are no more dangererous than many , and not so wacky as some

  • daystar
    daystar

    So he believed that from something "bad", a "good" outcome?

  • Why Georgia
    Why Georgia

    There are other cults disguised as "Christian" churches and they can be just as dangerous as the JW's.

    When I was 5 years old (1978)- 2 very nice ladies knocked on the door at my grandparents house. My mother freshly divorced and alone spoke with the ladies and we started going to the church. We became very active with these people in our new family. Church 2 times on Sunday and one time on Wednesday and out knocking on doors too.

    My mother brought her sister and brother into the congregation.

    Then one day my mothers best friend who had brought her in found out her husband was raping her daughters. She was kept at the church until she agreed not to go to the police and make a bad name for the church. It was hours and hours. As soon as she left she went right to the police and had her husband arrested.

    She was shunned and excommunicated from the church. No one would speak to her and she ended up moving out of our town because of all the threats coming towards her. We left too after we saw how she was treated for doing the right thing. They treated my mother and I the same way as they did our friend.

    5 other families left at the same time.

    20+ years later these same people who turned their noses up at me and my mother showed up at my Grandfathers deathbed to lend support to my Uncle and Aunt. They barely spoke to my mother and started arguments with me and my husband because he was active at the KH at the time...telling him he was going to go to hell.

    At this point in my life I have no use for any kind of organised religion. It seems horrible and just the same in every branch.

    WG

  • AK - Jeff
    AK - Jeff
    So he believed that from something "bad", a "good" outcome?

    He still deals with anger and distress over the accident, but if something that bad must happen to him, the result of his family leaving a destructive cult was an outcome that was positive at least. Jeff

  • Evanescence
    Evanescence

    Has anyone read the book "Unseen, Unheard, Unknown" ? by Sarah Hamilton byrne (I think I got the author right)

    There are definatly deadly cults out there, much worse than the JW's

    Evanescence

  • AK - Jeff
    AK - Jeff

    HAven't heard of the book you mention , Evanescence.

    I think my post-borg education is now starting to move in the direction of understanding cults somewhat. Diane mentions a couple books on the subject in her book. Is the one you mention widely available, on Amazon, etc? Of course, Hassan's book will be the first one I think for me.

    Jeff

  • under74
    under74

    http://jonestown.sdsu.edu/

    This is a good site...but heartbreaking. They also have a newsletter you can get.Rebecca Moore is one of the people that started the site--she's also a professor in Religious Studies at San Diego State. She also lost her oldest sister at Jonestown.

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