Hey Exodus,
In the usa, there is a large mega-company of lawyers called "Paid Legal Advice" where for a small monthly charge, you can have your very own lawyer at your beck and call - and to write really nasty letters for you.
In our area (SC) - it works pretty well. I don't know if I'd have faith to go against a murder charge with them......but they're probably good with letters.
We have a situation with our BOE, and we did have a lawyer, who did write letters to Legal Dept. We finally backed down, even though Legal Dept. said we could sue local PO for slander (they said elders were sued all the time, they didn't care - just don't sue the WT). We backed down because the PO is 80, cries at the drop of the hat, shakes terribly when nervous, turns beat red, cries for his wife's help, and she wears a shawel and a hankie at all times. Can you just imagine us not looking like royal SOB's for sueing him?
The elders came to visit us on Christmas day - asking if we wanted to be known as jw's, my husband answered affirmative....and then we wrote a two page letter explaining our answer, and if we heard anything different, we'd consider that slander and our lawyer would - again - become involved. We sent Certified Return Receipt to them, and to the Legal Department, noting on letter that we had also sent it to our lawyer.
We wrote that we would be glad to meet with them, along with our attorney, and to give us at least two weeks advanced, written, notification. Also to specifically state what they want to speak about with us so we and our attorney have time to prepare proper responses.
We haven't heard anymore, but I think it all should be in writing, for later proof, and an attorney (giving his name) should be in each writing. A restraining order might not be a bad idea - if for nothing else but to add to your written proof of harrassment.
Hope it goes well with you.
waiting