What should our goal be as individual exJW's who are still tied to the organization through family and friends.
Our goal should not be to bring down the Watchtower. Our goal should not be to get people to stop being JW's. Our goal should be to help people live a full life whether they remain a witness or not.
Attack the dangerous ideas that keep people from living their life.
Ideas like:
1) The end is very very near, no need to plan for the future. You should combat this not by attacking the chronology ideas, but by gently guiding people to follow their dreams and helping them plan to do this.
2) We are no part of the world, we should only go to meetings and associate with witnesses. You should combat this by gently getting your JW relatives and friends involved in volunteer groups and other ways of showing them that most people are basically good and that there is nothing "special" about Jehovah's Witnesses.
These are the beliefs that are life altering. These are the core values that we can help them change over time. We can do it.
hugs
Joel