She's the same age as me; 22 but has the mentality of a 16 year old. She has been itching to get married the past couple of months b/c in her mind: the only way she will be able to be out of her parents' control is to finally get married to a "fine witness brother"
I told her why not go back to school and while you do that save up money to find your own place? But she complains of the bills she already has from buying a new car recently and the fact that her mother would never allow her to move out (her sister also and she's 24!)
Its so sad. I mean, I have it rough but at least I know what's the real truth and my head is on straight. Plus, I've expirienced dating, men, being in the real world and whatnot so when I'm ready to make a move I will be prepared.
But if you only see my friend: she gets all giddy around guys in the hall, only talks about being married even though she has never even dated anyone and I don't even think she knows about sex at all.
How do I help her without sounding like an apostate?