triple whammy

by Mulan 5 Replies latest jw friends

  • Mulan
    Mulan

    In the aftermath of Tuesday's disaster, I can reflect on the past three weeks as the "summer from Hell!"

    My stepfather died on August 24, then my beloved cousin, Sharon, took a dramatic turn for the worse, and died on September 6. We had barely gotten over the trauma of her memorial service on Sunday, when this awful situation happened in our country. Sharon's sons had flown here from Wisconsin and New York to be here the last few days of their mother's life, and now are stranded far from home, due to the airlines being out of commission, so to speak.

    We were talking today about how when things finally get back to normal, in our lives, how Sharon's death will hit us so hard!! Maybe it has been a good thing for us, to have this distraction, because I was so torn up by her death. The reality is that she is gone. I find it hard to get too wrapped up in the national tragedy today (although we were glued to the TV all day on Tuesday) but have been very emotional again.

    And, I have been in touch with a young woman, who was horribly abused by her father. Bill Bowen put her in touch with me this week, and we have talked many times already.

    The fact is, that life goes on, and we have to deal with real life.

    I had to say these things...........just my musings.

    Marilyn (a.k.a. Mulan)

  • DannyBear
    DannyBear

    And your are entitled to express every word! I can't even imagine the mixed bag of emotions you and yours are suffering at this moment.

    Take care, we all face the coming days, one at a time.

    Danny

  • bluesapphire
    bluesapphire

    Marilyn: my sympathy and prayers go out to you. I don't know if you remember this but about two-three years ago you helped me over the phone when I was just a doubting witness. You were THE first ex-witness I had talked to - ever and you put me in touch with someone closer to my home. You sent me information on the WTS which got me thinking and you helped me to get my kids out okay. I will never forget your kindness. I want to extend love and concern for you now in your grief. Consider me a friend - one of the many friends you have on this board who love and care for you.

    e-mail me if you ever want. [email protected]

  • Oldhippie
    Oldhippie

    They say trouble comes in bunches. Hopefully your bunch is over for now. When the going gets tough, the tough get going.....and various other cliches that I can't think of right now.

  • Mulan
    Mulan

    bluesapphire........give me another hint? Your story sounds really familiar, but my brain is working at "half-mast" this week, and I can't pull your situation up. I am SO happy I was able to help you though........occasionally I do that

    I got a pretty decent night's sleep last night, so should be pretty good today. Thank you all for your love and concern. It helps a lot.

    Marilyn (a.k.a. Mulan)

  • Winston
    Winston

    Mulan,

    My heart go out to you, I too have had the triple wammy but the space was farther a part then your's.

    Your determination is an inspiration to us all.

    Love David R. Wiltshire.

    How long have you LIVED and how long has God LIVED?
    1,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000 to .000000000000000000000000000000001
    Who is like God?

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