You could be a member of a cult if...

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  LovesDubs

  I always used the following site as a measurement whether the WTS is a cult. Hands down baby...all day long and into next week...they are: http://www.caic.org.au/biblebase/abuse/selfquiz.htm

  Self Quiz
  

  A group starts with two people. And two individuals can find themselves embroiled in many of the same fundamental destructive group dynamics that large organizations fall prey to.

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  Are you "UNDER THE INFLUENCE"
  of a destructive group or belief system?
  Find out with this
  SELF QUIZ:

• Does your group discourage doubts, criticism or ideas that differ from their belief system?
  Yes____No____
• Do you tend to rationalize whatever the group does even when it goes against your sense of right and wrong?
  Yes___ No___
• Do you often feel exhausted from lengthy group activities, meetings and projects?
  Yes___ No___
• Does your group have its own unique words, cliches, slogans, chants, prayers and doctrinal phrases that reinforce the group viewpoint?
  Yes___ No___
• Are doubts viewed as a lack of faith, dedication, commitment or disloyalty?
  Yes___ No___
• Have "your thoughts" become "the enemy?"
  Yes___ No___
• Do you often find yourself doing more and more things in the group or because of group peer pressure that you would not have done on your own?
  Yes___ No___
• Does your group publicly humiliate or criticize members?
  Yes___ No___
• Does your group have a system of punishments and rewards for behavior?
  Yes___ No___
• Group paranoia: Does your group obsessively think other groups or people with different beliefs are out to get them?
  Yes___ No___
• Does the prospect of leaving your group seem scary, difficult?
  Yes___ No___
• Do you feel the need to leave in secret?
  Yes___ No___
• Have you been told something bad might happen if you leave?
  Yes___ No___
• Does your group/belief system think they have/are the only or highest truth, or have the solution for the world’s problems?
  Yes___ No___
• Are your leader’s ideas or belief system considered beyond reproach or sacred?
  Yes___ No___
• Do you follow a particular individual or belief system that requires unquestioning obedience and loyalty?
  Yes___ No___
• ) Do members of your group feel specially chosen, superior, exclusive, elite?
  Yes___ No___
• Do you feel the need to save or convert others to your belief system or ideology?
  Yes___ No___
• Is your group secretive to outsiders about its inner workings, teachings, activities or beliefs?
  Yes___ No___
• Does your group equate purity and goodness to being in your group, and impurity or evil to those outside your group?
  Yes___ No___
• Do you place your group’s mission or agenda above your own goals and ideals? Do group interests come before your own interest
  Yes___ No___
• Do you find yourself thinking in a we-they, us-versus-them mind set?
  Yes___ No___
• Does your group/system have a clear outside enemy?
  Yes___ No___
• Do you see less and less of your family and friends who do not belong to your group or who do not subscribe to your group’s belief system?
  Yes___ No___
• Does your group use frequent public testimonials, confessions, or sharings that reinforce the group’s mission or agenda?
  Yes___ No___
• Is communication within, into and out of your group controlled or censored in any manner?
  Yes___ No___
• Does your group criticize, shun, abandon or demean individuals who leave the group?
  Yes___ No___
• Do members seek approval or get permission from group leader(s) for personal life choices?
  Yes___ No___
• Do you feel pressured to attend meetings, events, lectures, seminars? And do you feel guilty if you don’t attend?
  Yes___ No___
• Do you feel pressured to give a portion of your income to the group, or spend money on courses, books or special projects?
  Yes___ No___
• Are the group’s financial needs more important than your own economic well-being?
  Yes___ No___
• Does your group discriminate against anyone regarding race, gender, belief, or sexual orientation?
  Yes___ No___
• Does your group have a totalitarian structure: a strict, top-down centralized control?
  Yes___ No___

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  Do you wonder if you have been in a destructive group?
  Do you...

...have difficulty forming new friendships and intimate relationships?
Yes___ No___

...have low self-esteem, poor self-image or loss of identity?
Yes___ No___

...have difficulty making simple decisions and choices?
Yes___ No___

...often feel depressed, anxious and nervous?
Yes___ No___

...feel isolated, lonely, guilty, cynical?
Yes___ No___

...feel like you are just now growing up, becoming a mature adult?
Yes___ No___

...have short-term memory difficulties?
Yes___ No___

...feel you have nothing to believe in?
Yes___ No___

...often feel anger and rage towards the group?
Yes___ No___

...have nightmares or unpleasant dreams?
Yes___ No___

...find it difficult or impossible to stop mental or other group ritualistic practices?
Yes___ No___

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This quiz has no scientifically predetermined number of "yes" answers to indicate a distructive group. However, answering "yes" to any of the above questions means you may need to examine your group and its influence in your life in those areas.

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