Mom's (typical) Jw reaction to tragedy

by Esmeralda 4 Replies latest jw friends

  • Esmeralda
    Esmeralda

    Me: They closed the doors to Bethel so people couldn't get in! People who needed help!

    Mom: Good! What goes on outside has nothing to do with us.

    Me: Their own web site said,

    Mom: We don't have a website! It's all apostate things on the internet! Why do these malcontents have to pick on the Witnesses? I'll tell you what! Give them my phone number, I want to just once look in the face of our accusers!

    I'm sitting there thinking, Mom, you're looking at one. Its only a matter of time until she brands me as an apostate, if she hasn't already behind my back. I couldn't care less.

    Other 'gems' from our conversation:

    Mom: I'm excited...things are finally starting to happen. I think that I'm finally going to have the chance to see my Dad again. I was beginning to think it would never come. But this is it, the beginning of the great tribulation.

    I'm trying so hard not to gag here. She spewed a lot more in the hour or so she ranted, but I can't bear to recall it all. All I can tell you is, a zealot is a zealot: whether they're flying planes into buildings or waiting for God to do their killing for them.

    Oh, one more thing she said.

    "If I have to die for Jehovah, well that's what I'll do. I put my trust in Him. I don't care if imperfect men are leading us. My trust is in Jehovah. We will all either live or die for Him."

    "And what flavor will the Kool Ade be?" I said under my breath. She didn't hear me, but my father did.

    And he looked very sad. Because he knew as well as I did that if they handed her a glass, she'd drink it.

    Ugh.
    es

  • DannyBear
    DannyBear

    Mornin Essy,

    I wanted to reply to your post last night, but exceeded my limit.

    ***I'm trying so hard not to gag here. She spewed a lot more in the hour or so she ranted, but I can't bear to recall it all. All I can tell you is, a zealot is a zealot: whether they're flying planes into buildings or waiting for God to do their killing for them.***

    Isn't it the truth. They sadly do not see themselves anywhere near this evil, yet it is the reality of their treasured beliefs. They have not the slightest interest in discovering the truth about 'the truth'. Blind fervor. Sometimes you just wanna give them reality slap, little good it would do, since their mind would translate it into \'persecution' and only reinforce their stand. That is why 'fanatics' are almost impossible to reason with. You just can't win for losing.

    She will have to do it herself Essy. You have tried with all your might.

    Hope your feeling well today.

    Danny

  • think41self
    think41self

    ((((Essie))))

    Your post made me glad my mother didn't call me, the conversation would have started out similarly. Only my mom has probably already branded me an apostate. My father was never a witness, and my mother has had to live with the cognitive dissonance of believing that her husband of all these years would die if Armageddon came tomorrow, so I guess by now she can live with the thought that so would 3 of her 4 children. Sad...very sad.

    I second Danny's thoughts...I hope you are feeling well today. Take care of yourself

    think41self

    "Not believing is not the same as not knowing."

  • Tina
    Tina

    ((((((((essie))))))))))))
    Just poppin in to wish you well and love,T

    Carl Sagan on balancing openness to new ideas with skeptical scrutiny..."if you are open to the point of gullibility and have not an ounce of skeptical sense-you cannot distinguish useful ideas from worthless ones."

  • WildHorses
    WildHorses

    Hi Es,

    Is your Dad not a JW, or is he just not as into it as she is?

    Lilacs

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