Hi Jurs,
I myself have had extensive experience in dealing with alcoholic relationships, to the extent that I have become an expert on dealing with and overcoming alcoholic relationships. I have written a lot about this topic, and also do personal coaching. The primary problem you have with your husband is alcoholism, not so much smoking pot.
I have learned some difficult and expensive lessons about alcoholic relationships. Here are 3 different things that might help. This is very strong stuff.
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Article, " Waiting for the other shoe to drop: - How the Weapons of the Alcoholic Impact and Harm the Entire Family"
> http://www.empowerthespirit.com/Articles/alcoholsp.pdf
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"Nine Things You Should NEVER Do in an Alcoholic Relationship"
> http://www.empowerthespirit.com/Articles/nine.htm
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THREE IMMUTABLE LAWS OF SURVIVING AN ALCOHOLIC RELATIONSHIP
1. You CANNOT control the alcoholic or his/her drinking.
2. If you want COMPLETE relief from an alcoholic relationship, you only have two possible alternatives: the alcoholic recovers; or you leave.
3. You only have one decision to make: You can take care of the problem now, or suffer longer and STILL take care of the problem later...
Either way, you WILL take care of the problem eventually, or die from the pain. Your choice.
PERIOD.
CASE CLOSED.
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I wish you all my best in overcoming your difficult situation. Please feel free to email me if I can help in any way. I feel your pain.
Doug
FreePeace
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--Article Link corrected.