religious arrogance spoils an otherwise lovely humanitarian story

by Scully 9 Replies latest watchtower beliefs

  • Scully
    Scully

    I normally delete on sight when I receive one of those mass emails that asks you to pass it along to everyone you know. I guess there was something about the alleged author returning to school as an adult and having three children that sucked me into reading this one.

    Aside from the usual "pass this along and you'll have a miracle happen in your life" crap that often goes along with these messages, the story started out quite nicely. All of a sudden, though, the author's self-righteous and arrogant attitude burst into the equation and made me want to puke.

    Breakfast at McDonald's

    This is a good story and is true, please read it all the way through until the end!

    I am a mother of three (ages 14, 12, 3) and have recently completed my college degree.

    The last class I had to take was Sociology.

    The teacher was absolutely inspiring with the qualities that I wish every human being had been graced with.

    Her last project of the term was called, "Smile."

    The class was asked to go out and smile at three people and document their reactions.

    I am a very friendly person and always smile at everyone and say hello anyway. So, I thought this would be a piece of cake, literally.

    Soon after we were assigned the project, my husband, youngest son, and I went out to McDonald's one crisp March morning.

    It was just our way of sharing special playtime with our son.

    We were standing in line, waiting to be served, when all of a sudden everyone around us began to back away, and then even my husband did.

    I did not move an inch... an overwhelming feeling of panic welled up inside of me as I turned to see why they had moved.

    As I turned around I smelled a horrible "dirty body" smell, and there standing behind me were two poor homeless men.

    As I looked down at the short gentleman, close to me, he was "smiling".

    His beautiful sky blue eyes were full of God's Light as he searched for acceptance.

    He said, "Good day" as he counted the few coins he had been clutching.

    The second man fumbled with his hands as he stood behind his friend. I realized the second man was mentally challenged and the blue-eyed gentleman was his salvation.

    I held my tears as I stood there with them.

    The young lady at the counter asked him what they wanted.

    He said, "Coffee is all Miss" because that was all they could afford.

    (If they wanted to sit in the restaurant and warm up, they had to buy something. He just wanted to be warm).

    Then I really felt it - the compulsion was so great I almost reached out and embraced the little man with the blue eyes.

    That is when I noticed all eyes in the restaurant were set on me, judging my every action.

    I smiled and asked the young lady behind the counter to give me two more breakfast meals on a separate tray.

    I then walked around t he corner to the table that the men had chosen as a resting spot. I put the tray on the table and laid my hand on the blue-eyed gentleman's cold hand.

    He looked up at me, with tears in his eyes, and said, "Thank you."

    I leaned over, began to pat his hand and said, "I did not do this for you. God is here working through me to give you hope."
    I started to cry as I walked away to join my husband and son.

    When I sat down my husband smiled at me and said, "That is why God gave you to me, Honey, to give me hope."

    We held hands for a moment and at that time, we knew that only because of the Grace that we had been given were we able to give.
    We are not church goers, but we are believers.

    That day showed me the pure Light of God's sweet love.

    I returned to college, on the last evening of class, with this story in hand.

    I turned in "my project" and the instructor read it.

    Then she looked up at me and said, "Can I share this?"

    I slowly nodded as she got the attention of the class.

    She began to read and that is when I knew that we as human beings and being part of God share this need to heal people and to be healed.

    In my own way I had touched the people at McDonald's, my husband, son, instructor, and every soul that shared the classroom
    on the last night I spent as a college student.

    I graduated with one of the biggest lessons I would ever learn: UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE.

    Much love and compassion is sent to each and every person who may read this and learn how to LOVE PEOPLE AND USE THINGS - NOT LOVE THINGS AND USE PEOPLE.

    All I want to know is why do people have to bring their religious delusions into what could just be acts of human kindness and decency toward the unfortunate?

    I wonder how the homeless men would feel about the author "using people" (them) for her project??

    I think next time, I'll just do what I normally do and delete this kind of email.

  • Scully
    Scully

    Oh, BTW, in case anyone is wondering, the paragraph formatting is as it was in the email I received. Some college graduates know that it is ok to have more than one sentence in a paragraph.

  • Cellist
    Cellist

    I totally agree with your summation.

    Cellist

  • itsallgoodnow
    itsallgoodnow

    I am beginning to realize I hate email. and this is just one of the reasons. do people really care about daily inspirational stories, which must be passed on to 8 friends? lame.

    I had a friend who sent me one or two of these things EVERY DAY. I put up with it for awhile and then set my email to not accept emails from her anymore. She hasn't spoken to me since. It was my aol account and I wanted to see what message she must have gotten so I tested it on another email account of mine, and it was fairly obvious I was cutting her off. She had it coming, no regrets.

  • sass_my_frass
    sass_my_frass

    Uck, yeah I got one the other day about a guy at a petrol station that god sent to fill up the tank of the car of the abused wife with three kids who was escaping to her mothers on the other side of the country. I get these from my aunt who has put me on her Jesus Freak list since she can't give them to my mum.

  • compound complex
    compound complex

    'Ey Scully, Dear Lassie --- If me 'art 'ad any cockles, yer dear lil' yarn would surely 'ave warm'd 'em [NOT!].

    A JW quite dear to me sent a dub checklist on how to be a better and more productive servant of Jehovah. Some 25 - 30 points, maybe. It smacked of the repression and rigidity we some of us have escaped and have no desire to return to. These formulaic, detailed processes by which we ostensibly attain salvation leave me limp. I hope I can get through to my dear one - some day!

    CoCo

  • A Paduan
    A Paduan

    She said it herself - "His beautiful sky blue eyes were full of God's Light" - but - I 'almost' reached out and embraced the little man - almost

    She was the one meeting Jesus - and he received a Mcmuffin - he's the one who is caring for the handicapped.

    I probably believe this bit - "I did not do this for you. God is here working through me......." - God probably sent her to feed them, unbeknowns to her.

    They've been blessed, broken, and handed out to her - she was the one invited, by Grace.

  • nelly136
    nelly136

    I leaned over, began to pat his hand and said, "I did not do this for you. God is here working through me to give you hope."

    patronising cow!

  • Sad emo
    Sad emo

    What nelly136 said!

    Beware of the pharisees who like to parade their righteousness on the streets... (or something like that lol!)

  • Cellist
    Cellist

    I really liked that little bit where she coughs up some cash AFTER she realizes everyone was watching her. And, I wonder why she didn't give the smelly homeless man a hug?

    Cellist

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