Starting anew

by hambeak 8 Replies latest watchtower medical

  • hambeak
    hambeak

    Starting a new location with more money. My partner is totally upset and angry that I am going somewhere else.

    I am looking forward to not being verbally abused and not working with him is that wrong? I am not sure someone will hire him as he is very vulgar with his mouth but is really nice when you get to know him. What shall I do Any suggestions.

  • zeroday
    zeroday
    I am looking forward to not being verbally abused and not working with him is that wrong?

    Unless you like being verbally abused why would that be wrong... I've know married couples that have been verbally abused for over 30 years and yet saw no need to exit the situation......

  • Scully
    Scully

    As Sheryl Crow puts it.... "a change will do you good"

    Ten years living in a paperbag
    Feedback baby, he's a flipped out cat
    He's a platinum canary, drinkin' falstaff beer
    Mercedes rule, and a rented lear
    Bottom feeder insincere
    Prophet lo-fi pioneer
    Sell the house and go to school
    Get a young girlfriend, daddy's jewel

    A change would do you good
    A change would do you good

    God's little gift is on the rag
    Poster girl posing in a fashion mag
    Canine, feline, Jekyll and Hyde
    Wear your fake fur on the inside
    Queen of south beach, aging blues
    Dinner's at six, wear your cement shoes
    I thought you were singing your heart out to me
    Your lips were syncing and now I see

    A change would do you good
    A change would do you good

    Chasing dragons with plastic swords
    Jack off Jimmy, everybody wants more
    Scully and angel on the kitchen floor
    And I'm calling Buddy on the ouija board
    I've been thinking 'bout catching a train
    Leave my phone machine by the radar range
    Hello it's me, I'm not at home
    If you'd like to reach me, leave me alone

    A change would do you good
    A change would do you good
    Hello, it's me, I'm not at home
    If you'd like to reach me, leave me alone

    A change would do you good
    A change would do you good

    (Sheryl Crow/Jeff Trott/Brian MacLeod)

  • zeroday
    zeroday
    A change would do you good
    A change would do you good

    Most people would rather eat s*** than change... go figure...

  • Mystla
    Mystla

    (((Hambeak)))

    We are here for you. You know in your heart what is best for you, follow it. I don't know enough about your situation to give detailed advice. I do know you have been through some realy rough times lately and sometimes making a change can help you deal with things.

    Misty

  • JWdaughter
    JWdaughter

    Was it the job that you hated or working with him? Cause if HE is the one verbally abusing you, I think you need to do more than get a new job! Life is too short! And too many people love you.

  • searching4truth
    searching4truth

    if he is the one that abused you why do you care what happens when your gone

  • Quentin
    Quentin

    Ending a relationship is no easy thing, abusive or otherwise...bottom line, do what's in your best interest.

  • jgnat
    jgnat

    Hambeak, your heart is large. It's the way you are made, so you can't help it. If someone gets mad at you, you figure you must have done something wrong. We had a lovely dog like that, a white german shepherd/lab mix. If anyone yelled in our house, she'd creep around, tail down. She figured if there was any yelling, it had to be her fault. Sometimes her soulful body language would shake us out of our funk.

    You made the right decision, and someone got mad. That didn't change the rightness of your decision.

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