one of my clients/good friend just told me she has incurrable cancer...

by orbison11 4 Replies latest watchtower medical

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  orbison11

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  about half an hour ago,,it has gone into her bones,,,incurrable,,,now what,,,,she is one of the people i was going to spend time with this year,,,i had decided i would come out of hidding

  she has a beautiful show stopping black fluffy pomeranian, she would bring to shop every time she had appointment, i have pics in my shop photo books of maggie her dog,,,,we adored our dogs

  it is not fair,,,,she is about 55, shit, sometimes i just hate life,,,yet this makes me also love and want to hold on to life

  my daughter also had bone tumours, and my dad died of cancer, so i sit here, and the tears they are a comin,,,all the emotion i felt for them is resurfacing

  and damn those jw's who finally came to my door yesterday,,,

  the last place i would go to have solitude, and try to speak with god is at a kindom hall

  anyway,,,i just needed to vent

  wendy
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  JWdaughter

  Orbison, I am so sorry to hear of your friends illness-you wouldn't wish it on your worst enemy. But cancer can't take away who you are and the things you accomplish. It can't subtract any of the love in your life, it can't take away your happy memories. No one has forever on this earth, but we can do the most with the time we have. Whatever future time your friend has-she can decide to enjoy and use well. Acknowledging you will die-well we all will die. Go on from there and decide to live-because from now until we take our last breath, all of us choose whether that time is spent living or dying. May she live and be happy!
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  penny2

  (((Wendy))) Sorry about your friend. 55 is too young. Hope you can still spend some time with her - she will need support.

  penny2
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  Do Not Call

  Oh Wendy, I'm sorry.
  
  It's a cruel thing.
  We've lost a number of family members and friends to cancer so we can empathise.
  Just take care and allow yourself to have a cry.
  
  Here's a ton of hugs and loads of love ((((((((Wendy and Friend)))))))))
  
  DNC XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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  AK - Jeff

  about half an hour ago,,it has gone into her bones,,,incurrable,,,now what,,,,she is one of the people i was going to spend time with this year,,,i had decided i would come out of hidding

  Please do this. Spend time with her. She has a limited time left and needs to know how you feel towards her.

  Dance like it is your last. In the end we all only leave memories - nothing more - make some for yourself, and for her.

  (((((((((((((Orbison11)))))))))))))))))

  Jeff