the fellow, not an elder, although was about 65 and well groomed, etc, so i asked him if he was
he has been 'in' for 12 years
i just remembered, i told him , finally that i was df''d,,he said''''oh you must have done something wrong(bad)'
i said, not,,,,you are df'd for not being repentant
he looked at me,,,,i could have gone off about how i could have been df'd for questioning governing body, etc
just a thought
wendy