Cognitive Dissonance...A Mind Dance

by Confession 9 Replies latest jw experiences

  • Confession
    Confession

    Cognitive Dissonance

    There are things that I believe, hold them closely to my heart
    I may myself deceive, to keep on feeling smart

    As time itself advances, new facts come to the fore
    My mind will do its dances, it helps me to ignore

    Two conflicting notions, now what to think—oh dear!
    My brain sets into motion, says, “Looky over here!”

    Beliefs are funny things, they really keep you hopping
    When truth brings on its stings, sometimes they need some propping

    But if the truth is really—your primary intention
    You must avoid those silly—cog-ni-tive inventions

    The mind creates a smokescreen, a most deceptive state
    It causes you to weigh things—with a ‘faulty set of weights’

    If your love for truth is strong, set your pride upon a shelf
    Admit you could be wrong, and be honest with yourself

    -Confession

  • truthsetsonefree
    truthsetsonefree

    Ah cognitive dissonance, the JW default state of mind.

    Admit you could be wrong, and be honest with yourself

    Therein lies the key to dealing with it.

    tsof

  • TopHat
    TopHat

    That's very good ....

  • Shawn10538
    Shawn10538

    Excellent! I think I'll use it for my education psychology class. Very relevant.

  • onacruse
    onacruse
    If your love for truth is strong, set your pride upon a shelf
    Admit you could be wrong, and be honest with yourself

    Does that strike a chord!

    Somewhat before I started participating on JWD, I had numerous conversations with seven006 and Farkel and AlanF. They all, at one point or another, said (in essence): "Craig, so now you're df'd, and you say for good, and buduh, buduh, buduh...But you're still talking and thinking just like a JW."

    Of course, I considered them all to be idiots. LOL

    Of all the things that have happened with me on JWD, the best is that I was willing, however unwillingly, to take a step back here and there and let the "alternatives" gestate in my mind.

    And so now I'm a genius...just any of you imply otherwise, and I'll just have to classify you as an idiot!

  • Confession
    Confession

    Shawn? What a coincidence...I just tried to call you. I'll try again.

    I think, after dealing with all the big, personal issues, that's what I'm left with--having come through this awakening process... Contemplating the fascinating "dance" of cognitive dissonance, watching others go through it, wondering just when (or if) that little synapse finally pops for them.

  • Outaservice
    Outaservice

    Good One!

    Outaservice

  • RAF
    RAF

    ... ...

  • Confession
    Confession

    Thanks for your comments, folks. I was inspired to write this after considering some of what our new contributor, Mad, has been posting. But nearly all of us have gone through it too, haven't we?

  • Confession
    Confession

    (Sorry! Double post.)

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