Hubby and I are about to have 3 major life changes.....Whew!

megsmomma

First news is that we are going to be moving to NC from TX in the next couple months....We are so happy about that! Hubby grew up there, and we have his family there

Hubby got a new job with in his company, so he will be learning new things and meeting new people....A good change for him.

And the biggest....We are likely to get full custody of his 3 and 5 year old girls...and move them with us. (His ex has not let us see them for over a year, and we just now have enough money to take her back to court, and his lawyer says he will likely get them) I will go from one baby full time, to three!! But, I love em to death!

Whew....This is gonna be one heck of a year!

greendawn

Well at least the changes are very positive I thought they were going to be negative ones when reading the subject title. You seem to be heading for a nice fresh start in life.

free2think

CONGRATULATIONS! Wow that's quite some news. That's really great. Keep us posted on how the court hearing goes, that will be really nice for meg to have more play friends.

reneeisorym

That is really going to be a ride for you! I'm so happy!

I LOVE NC. It's such a beautiful state. I hope the trial works out so you get to be supermom!

Abandoned

OMG!!! Wow, what awesome news. It sounds like things are clicking and popping for the two of you.

DJK

Good luck to all of you. Being happy about changes before they happen can make a big difference.

megsmomma

Thanks everyone....We have been waiting for all these things to start happening for over a year now, so it feels surreal that they actually ARE! We have 2 months till we go back to court...so we will not be going anywhere till then.

For the next 2 months, we have to call the ex every night and record her. Last night my hubby called...and she answered.."Hello..." and he said..."This is Buddy...can I talk to the girls?" She smugly said "Uhhh....Nope" and hung up. So he called back and again said "Can I talk to the girls?" And she didn't say anything, just hung up...then he called and got the machine and started saying .."This is Daddy, girls, I love you..." and she turned the machine off in the middle of it. She has told my hubby the girls think he is dead and "God" told her he was going to die soon. She is weird....and, I won't feel bad taking the girls from her.....She has done this to herself. Plus, we will be agreeable and flexable with her being able to see them.

Mrs Smith

All the best to you and hubby. Hope you get custody of the little ones.

unique1

Congratulations. If you are moving to the Triad area, perhaps we can finally meet.

Hubby and I are about to have 3 major life changes.....Whew!

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