The return of the Christian! With a Vengeance!!

by Gill 7 Replies latest jw experiences

  • Gill
    Gill

    My daughter goes to a Church of England Junior school. Until last year, there was virtually no 'pushing' of religion at the children.

    However, the children are now required to pray three times a day: when they get to school, before dinner and before leaving school in the afternoon.

    Any child seen not putting their hands together, bowing their heads, repeating the words, and keeping their eyes closed is 'punished' by having to sit on the 'naughty chair' for five minutes.

    On Ash Wednesday, the local Vicar came and gave a service and made the mark of the cross on the foreheads of all of the children!

    I must admit I had not realised that the school had gone so wacky!

    I have looked into moving schools but have been told by the local authority that this is the school for our catchment area and we cannot move to another school. I do not want to start making my child feel 'different' in the way JW children and the Muslim and Hindu children do, in that they have to stand outside the class and what to teach her, even though she is only 7, the tricks of 'mental freedom'! In that she can think what ever she wants in her own mind when this is going on and does not have to believe as the others are forced to.

    She is unhappy about all the praying, and she was very unhappy about having the sign of the cross made on her forehead by the vicar, but they were not allowed to refuse.

    So! What do you think? Any suggestions? As a family unit we are very unhappy at this turn of events at school this year! We are slightly paralysed by our JW past as in exactly what action to take as in the past we kept the kids 'out of things' because we were JW....now we have NO religious objection, just an objection to religion!!!

  • LittleToe
    LittleToe

    Have a word with the teachers. Make it plain that you were previous a member of the JW cult and subsequently find the forcing of religion onto another person to be heinous.

    In this day and age of religious liberty there is absolutely no way a child should be punished for not performing a religious act. Its things like this that bring Christinaity into a similar disrepute as Islam. We have several hundred years of a drop on Islam, and should know better, but some Christians see a contemporary challenge and are reacting accordingly

  • Junction-Guy
    Junction-Guy

    Ok your profile says you live in Sweden, but your daughter attends a church of England school, so is this school public or private? If private, then you always have the choice of her not attending there.

  • LittleToe
    LittleToe

    JG:I think the profile thing is a "Eurovision Song Contest" thang.

    Gill is a Brit. Hope that helps

  • Gill
    Gill

    LT - Thanks! I hadn't myself realised this was happening to such a enforced extent until a couple of weeks ago. My Born Again neightbour is very angry about it and has complained to the Head mistress and the Vicar. However, he has accussed them of Pagan practices as well which has really wound them up.

    My children have been going to this school for seventeen years so I know for a fact that this NEVER EVER happened until the Church of England Ofsted inspection last June! It is very disturbing! I'm surprised at how upset we all feel about it. I will take up your suggestion.

    Junction-Guy - Yeah! Sorry! I'm British not Swedish!

  • Junction-Guy
    Junction-Guy

    Well I guess it all boils down to how your kids feel. If they still want to go there, then more power to them, if not, then help them find another school. Is it private? or public?

  • jgnat
    jgnat

    Canadian bureaucrats tried the same line on me (about catchment/borders). Sometimes if you get just a little pushier they will back off. I am sure there are religious freedom laws in Britain. They don't require the Jewish, Hindu and Muslim children to pray three times a day, or have the sign of the cross on their forehead, do they?

    How about offering to drive your child to school, outside district? Offer to put that offer in writing?

    Another option is to move in to another district. Scout out the schools first.

  • bluebell
    bluebell

    That is odd - I agree that it is probably a backlash. It wouldn't be so bad if you had purposefully put your child in that school but an entirely different matter if its the one in your catchment area and not specifically for ones following that religion. You may have no choice about the school so you should have a choice how your child is treated.

    Speak to the school about it. And another thought - maybe some other parents are unhappy too(apart from the one you already mentioned)? You can go as a group and put more weight behind your case.

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