I now believe in KARMA

by Es 4 Replies latest jw friends

  • Es
    Es

    Found out some interesting news last night from ex hubby. When ex hubby and I were wanting to get married we had alot of trouble with the elders because my dad didnt like my ex, dad being an elder held a lot of weight on the decision for us to get the hall, even tho we had not done anything scriptually wrong. Anyway my best friend and ex hubby's cousin were our bestman and bridesmaid.

    They got together after our wedding and things went down hill pretty fast, she hardly spoke to me I guess she was too busy with her new man, anyway the next thing we hear from the fam is that they were getting married and we were no longer allowed to be in there bridal party. Her father had convinced her that with all the trouble we had getting the hall it would jeopardise them getting the hall, so we were told quite bluntly we were no longer required.

    So suffice to say our relationship with them was over, it also caused alot of trouble in our marriage as I couldnt get over how my best friend could do that. After many years of not speaking to them we bumped into them at the convention, ex hubby's cousin had completely changed he was very spiritual, had been made a Ministeral Servant, mind you before he got married, he smoked and was receiving oral pleasure off a lady at work......

    Anyway they went on to have a baby and looked the happy spiritual family, they just had there second baby before Kaia was born, but here comes the interesting news, they have seperated as of March, because cousin was having sex with another married sister in the congo, they are both D\F and happy still having sex, he doesnt care about his kids, and my ex best friend is now a single parent of two.

    I do feel sorry for her it would be horrible whatever she did to me she doesnt deserve this, but I cant help but feel Karma is SWEET

  • Gretchen956
    Gretchen956

    Cause and effect, but you could also title this "a tiger doesn't change his stripes."

    Your ex-friend may just be pretty contrite right now.

    Sherry

  • Es
    Es

    I agree, he had us fooled there, but like you said a tiger cant change his stripes

  • Anony-Mouse
    Anony-Mouse

    I hope karma is real...

    If it is, the rest of my life will be filled with bliss to offset the crap of the first 17 years :P .

  • Es
    Es

    I know how you feel, and believe me this took a long time, I mean this year they would have been married nearly 9 years, its just sweet i know it terrible and I do feel bad for her but on the other hand they hell they put us through well now she is living a hell of her own

    es

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