After reading the frequent threads on atheism verses theism, I find that both are very passionate about one thing, their beliefs.
Atheists may not believe in God, but they are firm believers in the abscence of a God and evolution.
Theists, on the other hand, are just as firm in their belief in a God and usually creation. Some may work evolution in there also.
Both sides, though, are passionate about the same thing, namely beliefs. Maybe the problem is not whether one believes in God or not, but the insistance that our personal beliefs are the correct ones. Nobody likes to have their cherished beliefs threatened.
When you look at beliefs, they are just ideas that we have come to accept in our individual minds. It really doesn't matter what we believe in the larger scheme of things as far as to what is true. Just because we believe something does not make it true. There are some questions that we just don't have concrete answers for in this life.
So maybe the real problem is that we allow our beliefs to handicap our ability to just experirence and enjoy life as we find it in the present time. Maybe we need to let go of the constant search for absolute answers on the troubling aspects of life. I think I have spent too much time already trying to find the answers to questions that are really not answerable at this time.