I recently read a book on how to effectivly witness to JW's..
The premise of the book is that you must teach the JW to 'think' for himself.. Once you do that, they can begin to see the organization is not from god, but ruled by men..
You do this by asking them questions that they cannot answer, specifically about the organization itself.. All JW's are trained in "bible warfare".. But the JW's are not trained to defend the organization.. That just isn't something they've ever considered before, so if you question the organization, it will require them to think about an answer..
The book said even if you get a garbage answer, the fact is that you are training them to think..
The book also stated that it usually takes 3 good doubghts in the mind of a witness before the 'veil' comes off, and they can see the organization for what it is..
The book concludes that this alone is not enough, however. At this point you have to show them that there is something better out there for them...
So, I think both of you are right..
If a JW can see this information and disregaurd it without creating even the slighest doubght, then the JW isn't ready to have the 'veil' removed..
If it puts a chink in their armor, then the information served it's purpose..
If it's the final straw, then all the better..
But, regaurdless of either, I think it is just as important that we don't lose sight of the fact that this information should be in the hands of the average person (non-jw), so, along with the pedophile and other instances, the average person can be warned of what danger can happen..
I believe in my heart that JW's believe they are following god, even though we know they are not.. They are being led astray by the 'men' in Brooklyn.. Even if the information doesn't get people to leave the organization in mass numbers, maybe the information in some way can be used to protect others from joining the organization..
While trying to help our loved ones out, we should also be trying to help the general public from ever being sucked in in the first place..