by Lady Lee 7 Replies latest jw friends
talk to other JWs about why you had been DFed?
I have heard some pretty amazing things about what I supposedly did. And I recall the rumors that went on about other JWs who were DFed. In the absence of what really happened the rumor mill goes amok.
So if you were reinstated are you allowed to defend yourself from all the rumors?
Is there a gag order on what you can and can't talk about?
Did you ever get past the rumors?
And NO I'm not thinking of going back
There is no gag order.
But sadly, as you already know from personal experience Lady Lee, once a person's reputation is destroyed by slanderous gossip, no amount of explanation will restore it.
I wouldn't give anyone the privelege of knowing...just out of spite. Let em' stew on it. I always say, if you're gonna start a rumor, make it a doosy, really give em' something to talk about.
BP
talk to other JWs about why you had been DFed? Yes, few do and it is always satan's or the world's fault
I have heard some pretty amazing things about what I supposedly did. And I recall the rumors that went on about other JWs who were DFed. In the absence of what really happened the rumor mill goes amok.
So if you were reinstated are you allowed to defend yourself from all the rumors? No, I have never heard anyone try.
Is there a gag order on what you can and can't talk about? Yes, you can't say you enjoyed anything outside or the friends you may have still because you don't have any.
Did you ever get past the rumors? No one did that I have known, they usualy just go with them and hope for the best.
Since knowing JWs, in respect to DF stuff, I've expereinced:
1 male going to jail over sex with 2 under aged females
1 male inpregnating a JW female while being engaged to another female and seeing another female on the side ALL AT THE SAME TIME
1 male put in jail and is still there
1 male avoiding commenting and slobbering over females other than his wife (which was normally in front of his wife), because I didn't think it was appropriate(his words), NOT because it's the wrong thing to do or it hurts her, or something God would not approve of
1 male groaning (in a sexual way) over a female JW taking her coat off, and touching her head all the time when he has another JW girlfriend
---should I go on?
All these were different JW males. See a pattern here?
If you're in the "TRUTH" and lurking here, and you think your people are something different and special.....think again, God is neither director or a backer of your false organization or the people in it. Ponder this, and the org's history. What an embarrasement, truly.
Oh, sorry, need to clerify, the 4th male on my list was always drooling over other females in front of his JW wife, until he found out it bothered me. He still does it when ever he can, but it's usually silent and in a sneaky way. I pay attention to him when other females are around. He's so obvious. He surely hasn't paid attention to any of the recent Marriage or Husband/Wife talks in the watchtower in recent months or years.
This guy would fight for his life over "Jehovah" God. It's such hypocrisy.
If the rumors are a lie tell them to stop gossiping and mind their own business. Elders and their wives are the worst! Why do you care?
The best would be to START rumors by denying things ever happened!
NO I did NOT have a massive orgy with all the elders and their wives and refuse to teabag brother johnson...!
You get the idea!
