My dad hid our Sept. KM from us!!!!

by changeling 5 Replies latest jw friends

  • changeling
    changeling

    When my dad went to the meeting today, I looked through his room for the Sept. KM so I could make a copy.

    I had told him awhile back to be on the lookout for it and said "a friend from another cong. got his early and found the Question Box very intersting".

    Just last week I asked if he'd received his copy, and he said he had. I asked what he thought of the Question Box. He said he did not recall what it was about.

    I refreshed his memory and said it stated that research into Bible History and Science was basically a waste of time and that if one felt the need to do such research then the Society's publications should suffice.

    I said I felt this was a dangerous stand to take. He said "Hummm..." I said" what about the Beoreans?" Dad said "Hummm..." I dropped the subject.

    I was dissapointed that a man as intelligent as my dad would not be horrified by this matter. I know I had built myself up for this dissapointment and I'll just have to get over it.

    Back to today's search of Dad's room: not only did I find his KM in a folder in his desk, I found one with my husband's name on it!!!! Apparently the cong. still issues him a copy!!!!

    He stopped FS and meetings after I did so I guess he's still counted "worthy" by the cong. to receive a KM.

    But Dad took it upon himself to count my husband "unworthy".

    This just proves to me that the KM did have some effect on Dad. It would appear that the efect is negative and he is drawing a clearer "line in the sand", but who knows? Maybe it will make him think.

  • OnTheWayOut
    OnTheWayOut

    You know the man, but it is common for an elder to get KM's for people that don't
    ask for them. I wouldn't read into that. If your husband reported any time in the
    last 6 months, he could be getting his KM but only if he goes and gets it.

  • changeling
    changeling

    OTWO: There's no doubt in mind that this was deliberate. I specifically asked about this issue, and Dad lives under our own roof.

    changeling

  • VM44
    VM44

    it stated that research into Bible History and Science was basically a waste of time and that if one felt the need to do such research then the Society's publications should suffice.

    WOW! That is a strong statement for the KM to make. Has the article been posted here at JWD?

    I need to get a copy of this.

    It is a flat out statement that people should not study anything not published by the Society!

    --VM44

  • aSphereisnotaCircle
    aSphereisnotaCircle
    I was dissapointed that a man as intelligent as my dad would not be horrified by this matter. I know I had built myself up for this dissapointment and I'll just have to get over it.

    You made him embarrassed about his own religion. I think that is a significant impact. Even though he appears to brush it off.

    It takes baby steps.....

  • SnakesInTheTower
    SnakesInTheTower

    I havent received a KM since May (well I got a May one and lost it at the DC in my folder)....no KM for June, July, Aug, or Sept. I havent been to a SM since May.

    My how time flies when you are having fun.

    Even though I am still considered a "regular" publisher, I guess I am no longer worthy of such important spiritual food at the proper time.....

    Snakes (...)

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