Hi. Before I go any further I would like to thank all the people who responded to my two previous posts to offer support, advice and guidance. My ex-JW ex is now back in my life. I really was prepared to move on, but somehow he is back. Can't seem to get rid ot him though I did genuinely try. lol We are talking much more openly than ever before, as we have decided to be just friends for now. I do not know whether that will ever change and am happy to accept it. He is getting some counselling now, which seems to be helping him, to deal with issues, both JW and non-JW related.
Anyway, as I said we are talking more openly. He has said he talks with his daughter about birthdays and all these things and they went to the birthday party of his friend's son the other day and had cake and everything. The biggest thing though is that he said that his ex-wife is having doubts about the JWs. I am so excited about the prospect of his daughter possibly having a "normal" childhood. (sorry, couldn't think of a better word, though sure someone will come up with one for me). I do realise that this may be the start of a very long, slow process and nothing will change overnight, but it is a start.
For those on the forum who are Christians, please include us in your prayers. I believe very strongly in the power of prayer.
Thanks to everyone.