by Sparkplug 6 Replies latest jw friends
Trying to find an old aquaintance. I think he is a person who just walked away from being a JW. Possibly recently. Maybe from the Lansing Michigan area or about 30 minutes out. Possibly late 30's to late 40's? I hear the one Simmons brothers was very active till recently. A MS. Pioneer.
I know I am just calling out names here, but what the heck. I am looking for someone and need to find them.
Maybe one of you fine people know how find them.
Thank you.
I am sending you a p.m.
BTT
I am sending you a p.m.
cool...Can't wait. hope you know something.
btt
Well seeing nobody knows and even though a few have responded via PM, I have had no luck. So I am going to start database searches and such. I have not had a lot of time, but...here is why I am looking for the Simmons Brothers.
I wrote a PM to someone explaining, so I am using it as a recap, with a few additions for times sake this am.
Jerry and Terry Simmons. Both single I think. They would have someone still in named xxxxxx. That is my moms friend and I am sure she does not want her mentioned. But I am looking for the two boys.
My mom who is a JW tried to find them and well I guess the one was really active and then just left and wont answer the Elders. The other I don't know. But the lady xxxx, my mom was really close to her. I guess she is in bad health.
I personally don't know the guys, but when my mom tried to find them in the congregation (At least the one) had left recently. THE BROTHERS LET IT DIE AT THAT. Of course. They let a lot of things stop at that. I personally don't.
I was told by my siblings that these two boys years ago molested my brother and sister a long time ago when they were little. Very young. The Simmons boys would have been were teenagers then. My sister and brother are pretty much screwed up in different ways. My sister like I suffered other abuses, so she is really messed up. But she told me about this so that is something. One never has stopped gaining weight and is so self absorbed and needs therapy forever due to this and repeated acts of this sort that happened to us kids...and neither had kids and both have had major health an mental and stress issues and well...I just want to try to start the healing for them even if they don't care to talk to me. Now the secret got told to me. And I told my aged mom. She tried to adress it and the elders told her that the one just stopped coming to meetings after being a MS and poinneer and they cant get him to answer. So seeing he is not professing to being a JW it is all taken care of. Jehovahs org is clean.
I call bullshit on that. Usually kids that do that to other kids don't stop at that if let just continue. Seeing neither married and now they are out and about and in the"world" it seems to me that the elders and my mom are OK with letting it go.
Until I mentioned today that I don't give a damn and I don't mind trying to trace them down. Justice or answers or phedopilia (if it has continued into that) (I guess it was just molestation and rape) ... does not stop at the door to the KH. My mom was so mad at me......BUT she gave me the guys names. WOW.
She just asked that I do not draw xxxxx it. I guess that is a really nice older sister that helped my mom and would not have had a clue just a blind sheep of sorts.
Anyhow, it is strange I posted something about this and I am trying to find the post to see the timeline (I still cannot find where I posted it and I am really curious as to what I actually posted)...then I told my mom. maybe a week or a month later. (I am trying to recall if this timeline fits) I really am thinking I remember it as this, but I cannot be sure. I have this memory and time thing. Well it comes and goes. I am ahead of my time on this. I did not know she called the elders. I did not know what she was told. Strange how this active member all of the sudden had dropped out of sight. Like he knew it was coming. And if he figured it out by chance...then he knew the elders would stop at the door of the KH and leave him alone. Perhaps?
At any rate, I can't help but wonder if maybe the person by chance..(BIG CHANCE) saw my post and figured something out. I know it is a crazy long shot, but my mind is whirling.
Decki
For the sake of this being see~ I am going to start a new thread with a more appropriate title.
