hi all, just an update on my JW ex BF

by firefly 2 Replies latest social relationships

  • firefly
    firefly

    hey everyone. i just wanted to give an update on whats been happening with my ex beau. Anyone who dosen't know the story so far should read my post "i don't understand this man"

    well, apparantly my ex was disfellowshipped. I'm guessing it has a lot to do with me. since then from what i've been told he's been sleeping over a lot at his new gf's place. she shares her home with her 6 year old daughter and with with two friends that help share the bills. unfortunately she and her two roomies are big into recreational drug use. I don't know if my ex has been using, but i know that it goes against everything that both he and i thought to be right and responsible. I don't claim to be the worlds best person, but i can't believe that he would want to be with someone like that, especially having a 5 year old son that spends time around her.

    His reasoning for breaking things off with me was to supposedly get back in good standing in his congregation and be a spiritual guide for his son. So what does he do, he starts seeing someone who's standards of conduct are lower than mine could ever be. I really feel sorry for him, but i especially feel bad for his son. He deserves so much better than that. I guess all i can do is pray for him in the hopes that he's not on a path of self destruction.

    All i know is that if he felt guilty for being with me, i can only imagine the inner turmoil that he's going through right now in being with her!

  • REBORNAGAIN
    REBORNAGAIN

    Sounds like he was using you and the others as excuses to get out from among the Jdubs. If he felt anything for you at all, he could want to come back to you. It's up to you what you do then. Keep saying your prayers, it's all you can do besides moving onwards yourself. Good Luck!

    LINDA

  • Burger Time
    Burger Time

    Ha my ex basically did the same thing. She broke up with me so she could get in good with ol J-Dub in the sky. Unfortunately a year later she was married to some worldly guy who was a step (my opinion of course).

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