undercover:
It seemed like (it may have just been coincidence) that congregations with problems seemed to get the dual CO/DO visit.
this is NOT coincidence. There are two reasons for a dual CO/DO visit. One good for the local BOE, one not.
The good is when the visit is in connection with a Special Assembly Day (SAD, ironically and aptly named acronym) or the Circuit Assembly. Then the congo gets an abreviated visit with talks by the CO and DO. It is considered a "privilege"...kinda like the pope coming.....lol...
The bad visit is called the "work with" week. The actual purpose of this visit is not the congo, but the CO (and wife, if married). The DO and his wife "work with" and "shepherd" the CO couple to make sure everything is alright, head off any problems (CO wife getting down in the work, etc.)
However, the scheduling of the "work with" week is anything but random. You are correct uc, it is the congos with the problems that get scheduled for the second type of visit...purposely...It gives the DO a chance to observe how the CO handles the "problem"....I know...I (as an elder) was considered the "problem" (by the rest of the BOE ) during one particular visit. The DO made the BOE back off of me....that time...they just bided their time until a new DO and CO came through...on the next CO visit (after consult with the DO apparently) they pointed to me as a "problem" again...but this time saying "well, the CO and DO before already tried to handle this....and Brother {Snakes} is not responding to their 'loving' {gag} counsel." New CO allowed me to be voted off the island.... in retrospect, yay for me....freedom ....delayed....but freedom.
Snakes ()
PS oh...my "problem"?...I did not roll over and go along with the local controlling elder and questioned him often ....he did not think I should go to college...bad example....and he did not agree with the way I dated or the person I was dating...so when it ended badly....(meaning she broke it off for her own reasons not involving me)...he went in for the kill...."See Brother CO, Brother {Snakes} is not reasonable...." bye bye Snakes.....