Traditional religion is on the rise worldwide.
It isn't here in America. More and more young people are not identifying with any particular religion: http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?file=/c/a/2004/07/21/MNGB37Q7L11.DTL
Also there is an large increase in participation in atheist/humanist/freethought groups here in America among young and old.
Atheists and secularists are upset that organized religion has not ended.
Who told you that? This atheist knows that there will likely always be a segment of people who are believers. And most atheists actually don't care what beliefs people hold. That's what makes them different from those who loyally believe and belong to evangelistic/expansionistic type groups, who believe that conversion of others to their way of thought is a life or death matter, sometimes zealously so.
The part about organized religion that can be "upsetting" is when they use influence on governments to discriminate against science or women, or try to legalize discrimination against minority groups like gays. In the past, major segments of organized religion supported slavery saying it was God's will. Now they've moved on to other ways to try to impose their views on society, framing trouble by decree. In America, the religious right campaigns to take money from the public till and advance religion at taxpayer expense, attacking our secular public schools, attacking the rights of nonbelievers, and attacking the "Establishment" clause of the Constitution.
I have no problem with religions that preach tolerance and open-mindedness.
The best society would be one where people would be free to choose their belief or non-belief philosophies, and one where religions wouldn't get deference or preferential treatment by the government. There should be strict separation of church and state, as Thomas Jefferson stated.
The best hope for the world (in terms of getting together to bridge differences) is non-theocratic, secular governments.