I spoke to one of my non-witness cousins the other day and she told me that our cousins who were raised SDA were no longer active in their church. She told me their mother was very upset.
I told my mom about this (these are my Dad's family I'm talking about) and her reaction was: "Good for them!" I mentioned my aunt being upset about it and she said: "Well, I had it out with her years ago".
At no point did she see the parallel between them and me or between her reaction and my aunt's.
I was very amused...
changeling