The abuse continues, emotional, but it's abuse, ck it out. . .

by Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit 7 Replies latest jw friends

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  Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

  My sister's girls, 9 and 12 were in Colorado for 3 weeks with their mom in December, we had the pleasure of celebrating Christmas all together. These are great girls, as most kids are!, the 12 year old worried about her pets while she was away.

  When she returned, they were gone. She's crushed, devastated, deeply depressed. Their evil JW father somehow 'disposed' of her cat and her horse, likely sold the horse, while she was gone. No explanation.

  Can you believe the cruelty???!

  (she did spill to us that she has a few times heard her dad and his 'blondie' girlfriend giggling and moaning on the couch late at night, and has seen them laying on one another on the couch in the dark, the gf's in their congregation)
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  dawg

  Man, I'll tell you what, flat out... anyone who hurts an animal without just casue makes me mad as hell! I don't give a rat's ass if they;re JW or not! I love my dogs, and one better be prepared for a wrath worse than Jehovah's if they mess with my animals!

  What the hell is worng with this Guy? Why would a parent hurt his kid's pets? Better get everyone away when someone degrades to this level... if he's capiable of hurting pets he's capiale of anything.
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  bikerchic

  My sister's girls, 9 and 12 were in Colorado for 3 weeks with their mom in December, we had the pleasure of celebrating Christmas all together. These are great girls, as most kids are!, the 12 year old worried about her pets while she was away.

  When she returned, they were gone. She's crushed, devastated, deeply depressed. Their evil JW father somehow 'disposed' of her cat and her horse, likely sold the horse, while she was gone. No explanation.

  Can you believe the cruelty???!

  Well in my opinion what is really cruel about all of this is that some adults seem to think it's okay to leave two minor children in the hands of an abusive parent. They are children and it's up to the adults who know about this to deal with it by not doing so and believe it or not by commiserating with the children over it you are being just as abusive, you see you're an adult children depend on adults to protect them.

  They might be describing things to you in a complaining manner because they don't really feel they have a voice to say HELP! Please take it as a sign that they need help and get it for them however you can and as soon as possible.

  If it were me I would be on the first plane out there and have already called child protective services and have the local police department ready to got to the door with me as soon as I got into town with a can of real whip ass! But that's just me, sigh.
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  Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

  Bikerchic, thanx for your concern, but, no sh*t. What shall I tell the authorities, that the evil daddy got rid of her pets? And then they'll do what? I've called the police when my sister has told me that he's abused her and the girls, been there, done that, got the t shirt. By the time the police arrive, not a terribly long wait mind you, he has threatened them into denying it, and no amount of questioning has revealed what has really happened.

  My sister lived under such control and fear for 27 years, and when divorced, having never worked in her life as a faithful jw wife, she was penniless and homeless, save for a kind man who became her bf and they've made a home together. The parents share custody and are in different states. He wants them because he can hurt and control Her, but he has nothing but contempt for the girls, he tells them he hates them. But until someone can nail the MFr with eyewitness testimony of an actual crime, what would you do once you got on a plane and went there? And of course, our jw family living in AZ are useless, they want to mind their business and say how nice it is that he's at the meetings.

  F*ck the jws.
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  worldtraveller

  Sell all assets and just vanish without a trace. Unbelievable abuse.

  Or you could pay a biker with some cash or beer and teach this guy a lesson on how to behave. Sometimes you gotta get rough when kids are involved.
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  flipper

  Disgusting ! Really is
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  eclipse

  Or you could pay a biker with some cash or beer and teach this guy a lesson on how to behave

  I'm with worldtraveller.

  I'd pay to have this jerk taught a lesson.
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  bikerchic

  Hey don't get me wrong but the way you present this there are too many things missing. Are you asking for advise or just wanting sympathy? What do you really want, just to vent? We all feel helpless, what can we do or say to make this any better for the children involved they are the ones really suffering.

  The parents share custody and are in different states.

  One question which to me seems logical.......why doesn't the mother of these children live about a block away from them so she can be more hands on and give them a soft place to go when things get bad at Dad's? Most mother's are very tenacious about protecting their children.