ok ok ok- what happens next?

by airwlk149 8 Replies latest jw experiences

  • airwlk149
    airwlk149

    so yeah. it's been a long time since my last post. those of you that don't go into the chat probably think i have disappeared from this site. those of you who do go into the chat... well, you know pretty much everything that has been going on. this post is just to say hi to anyone who is interested and to ask "what happens next?"
    you see, i live with my... well girlfriend now. we have become way more intimate. we are pretty much a couple. that thought doesn' bother me when we are alone or with friends who know, but when we are out in public or around family, we can't act like a couple. we are "just friends". it never bothered me before, but lately i will want to hold her hand out in public and i can't. stuff like that. nobody is supposed to know. well, just recently a couple people found out themselves, and it has been bothering me because my girlfriend doesn't know that they know yet, and it will bother her i think. and it bothers me. but why should it? i mean we ARE a couple. so anyways... that's it. for now. :)
    love always,
    katie

    thanks for reading! :)

  • Naeblis
    Naeblis

    I had the same problem with my parents. Whenever we were in public they made me pretend I was the paperboy. :(

  • dungbeetle
    dungbeetle

    (((((airwlk149))))

    I feel for you, I really do. From what you are saying, you're doing all the right things--that means, all the things to free you from the braindeadness of the WT. After that, your life is yours.

    Be well

    BITE ME, WATCHTOWER!!!

  • celebrate
    celebrate

    Think of it this way - put yourself 10 years from now. As you look back, will you be more proud that you hid it or more proud that you let everyone know you were a couple? If you are hiding that you are a couple just to make others feel better while you feel worse, what is the sense of hiding it? Get out from under the brain washing! Live your own life openly and fully and with no regrets. Nothing else works!

    celebrate

  • ISP
    ISP

    ...just don't get pregnant.

    ISP

  • Stephanus
    Stephanus
    ...just don't get pregnant.

    Somehow, I don't think that's going to be a problem for Katie and her girlfriend!

  • WildHorses
    WildHorses

    Steph, why'd you go and tell? LOL

    "I don't want someone in my life I can live with, I want someone in my life I can't live without."

  • Julie
    Julie

    Hi Katie,

    You have to live your life for yourself. If someone really loves you they will just have to accept what they do not understand or necessarily agree with.

    Life is short. Do what makes you happy. Be good to those around you and do not, repeat, DO NOT feel guilty for being happy. Ever. Say good-bye to paradigms and hello to freedom of thought.

    Best wishes for your freedom from the (narrow minded)opinions of others,

    Julie

  • airwlk149
    airwlk149

    just wanted to say hi again.

    love katie

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