Ken, it's rainy and dreary here today, so in my mild depression, I called my JW mother. The only thing she has to talk about is the KH, so I got to hear all the news about all of the old crowd I grew up with. So many have died. I'm always saddened that she never calls me to tell me about any of the funerals. Just because I left the WTBTS doesn't mean I don't love the people I grew up with. Many of the people in my congregation were like surrogate parents to me. For some reason, the JWs seem to think that rejecting their religion is rejecting them, and that's not the case for me at all.
We used to have the bookstudy at a farmer's home. He had an old movie projector and after the bookstudy was over, we'd watch old silent movies, mostly the Keystone Cops. He also had a pond and we'd change into our bathing suits after the meeting and hop in the water. Sometimes his sons would take us riding across the corn fields on their dirt bikes. This farmer died recently and my mother didn't tell me for weeks. I was broken hearted to miss his funeral. I really loved him and would have liked to have had the chance to express my sympathies and my love for him to his widow and children.
Despite being raised a JW and the craziness that implies, I have some wonderful memories of my childhood that are directly linked to various members of our congregation.