An early example of Russell acting that way is that he wrote advising others that it would be improper to say things like "Good
morning" to Maria.
In a letter of July 9, 1896, Russell wrote: "To avoid misunderstanding, let me
say, under the circumstances it properly devolves upon you to make the advances
on the line of social amenities between us. It would be improper for me to take
the initiative in the matter of amenities such as, 'good morning,' 'good night,
'etc." (Exhibit 2, Superior Court)
Reviewing the evidence, Justice Orlady ruled in Mrs. Russell's favor with
barely concealed anger:
"The indignities offered to [Mrs. Russell] in treating her as a menial in the
presence of servants, intimating that she was of unsound mind and that she was
under the influence of wicked and designing persons, fully warranted her
withdrawal from his house, and fully justified her fear that he intended to
further humiliate her, by a threat to resort to legal proceedings to test her
sanity. There is not a syllable in the testimony to justify his repeated
aspersions on her character and her mental condition, nor does he intimate in
any way that there was any difference between them other than that she did not
agree with him in his views of life and methods of conducting business. He says
himself that she is a woman of high intellectual qualities and perfect moral
character. While he denied in a general way that he attempted to belittle his
wife as she claimed, the general effect of his own testimony is a strong
confirmation of her allegations.
"In an analysis of the testimony it is quite difficult to understand the view
of the respondent in regard to his duty as a husband to his wife. From his
standpoint he doubtless felt that his rights as a husband were radically
different from the standard imposed upon him by the law, and recognized by all
the courts of this country.... His course of conduct toward his wife evidenced
such insistent egotism and extravagant self-praise that it would be manifest to
the jury that his conduct toward her was one of continual arrogant domination
that would necessarily render the life of any sensitive Christian woman a
burden and make her conditions intolerable."
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