I was looking up something about the symbols on Russels grave and came across a web site Freemasons « Cemeteries and Cemetery Symbols that talks about those things and amongst them was the Order of the Eastern Star! I realized in doing my geneaology that my moms mom was a member of the Eastern Star and that in order to be so you have to be RELATED to a Freemason! And that the Eastern Star while not a religious sect in itself, is based on religious ideology and has members apparently of deeply religious convictions. I asked my mother who it was she was related to who was a Mason and thinking it may have been grandmas uncle or something, was surprised when my mother said her FATHER was a Mason! How the hell I went for 50+ years of life not knowing this is beyond me. But take a look at this web site that talks about becoming a Freemason. BECOME A FREEMASON briefly anyway... the bottom paragraph caught my attention....
" What happens when an initiate wants to leave freemasonry ?
It is sufficient that he makes his decision known and his Lodge can put him to sleep, which means that his dropped from membership. According to some rumors it is not possible to leave the Order without running the risk of undergoing a terrible punishment. That is, of course, out of the question. What association would, indeed, be so stupid as to force people to remain members of an Order to which they do not belong with their full conviction ?"