One of the hardest things for me to admit, even more than a decade after having cut off Witness ties as much as possible, was the possibility that they might be a cult.
I would always tell people that JW's had messed up ideas, that they screwed up people's families, etc., but a cult? Surely I wasn't born into a cult.
The following is one definition I found on the internet:
7 ELEMENTS OF A CULTIC GROUP
1) A centralized form of leadership that rules with unquestioned authority
2) A body of convictions, beliefs, and practices set forth boldly as "the truth"
3) A compelling presentation of the group vision to prospects that is inviting and challenging
4) A series of manipulative socializing sessions to instill psychological dependence on the group
5) A definable process of group dynamics used to unethically control and manipulate members
6) A history of abuses of authority by group leaders freely using deception and fear tactics
7) A history of psychological and spiritual abuses of group members that destroy lives
Sound familiar? I don't know if that is really the accepted definition of cult, but it seems to describe JW's to a T. For some reason, the word cult makes me think of Waco and Jim Jones. I guess Witnesses just don't have the Kool-Aid. They're too cheap.