Not to take away from someone elses newest thread about disfellowshipping but just why is it so varied who they DF and who they dont ?.
I myself had been baptised then suffered a mental breakdown which they didnt know how to handle so they just didnt, i wanted to fade anyway so dont blame them now im just glad they didnt harass me too much to go back, they visited about twice but id since heard they hadnt a clue what to say to me. anyway i wasnt disfellowshipped and i never sent a note of disassociation in. i know this will sound odd to those who've been D.F'd but in a way i wish they had have done this to me as i feel like 'baptism hasnt been broken' (hope that makes sense)