How many here have been to Morning Worship at Bethel?

by BonaFide 8 Replies latest jw friends

  • BonaFide
    BonaFide

    In Bethels throughout the world, Morning Worship starts at 7 am sharp. In New York, there are closed-circuit televisions with a large digital clock display, including the seconds. Morning Worship takes place in the big dining rooms so you are given breakfast after, everyone has an assigned seat. Exactly at 7:00:00 AM, the Table Head begins morning worship. You are expected to be in your seat, not walking to your seat. If you wake up late, don't bother going downstairs, they don't want anyone interrupting Morning Worship.

    You are also expected to be wearing a tie or at least a nice shirt if you are male, there are only a few that don't wear a tie, and many often wear a suit jacket. The sisters all wear dresses, no pants allowed. You are not supposed to rest your hands on your chin, I got counseled for that. I guess it was in a nice way, but I was told to look more awake.

    Morning Worship is tied in to several dining rooms with about 300 in each one. The closed-circuit TV's are also tied into Wallkill, Patterson, and Canada I think three times per week now.

    Morning Worship is a consideration of the Daily Text, with brothers selected beforehand to give a one-minute comment. Then the conductor gives his comments. It lasts till about 7:15. After a prayer, the food comes. All the tables are set for 10 people, with a Table Head, and a Table Foot, seniority makes the call. It is family style, with everyone taking a portion from the serving dishes. The Table Head decides which way the serving dishes go around the table. Everyone takes a little. If it is all eaten, the Table Head gives the plate back to the waiter, who refills it. No one can speak to the waiter except the Table Head.

    The eating lasts about 15 minutes, then everyone quickly stands for the prayer, then rush off to work.

    That's the arrangement.

    The reality is that you are scared to death at Morning Worship. I have seen grown men who are new to Bethel struggle with napkins, basic table talk, and their food. It is nerve-wracking since there are rules (I mean provisions) about everything. How much you should take onto your plate, how much you should eat, how loud you should talk, how affectionate to your husband or wife you should be, how you should dress, what you should talk about and not talk about. The stress is incredible, although the weird thing is, I viewed it as a great privliege to be there, as only Bethelites and overnight guests can be present at Morning Worship.

    Sometimes there are reports from different countries, or from the Publishing Department about the number of magazines or books made. Sometimes there is a disfellowshipping from Bethel, that is shocking.

    But usually its pretty hard to listen to. I learned to sleep with my eyes open. (That's an old Bethel joke: "What do you learn at Morning Worship? To sleep with your eyes open.")

    Who else here has been to Morning Worship, here in the U.S. or elsewhere? What was it like? Did you enjoy it?

    BF

  • gymbob
    gymbob

    Yo!

    But when I was there, we just called it breakfast.....

  • Odrade
    Odrade

    I've been. Boring. My table manners passed muster, but I think I may have reached across somebody for the milk. I was at table with some bigwigs, so there was no rushing off to work after prayer. We sat back down and "enjoyed" a very leisurely breakfast.

  • asilentone
    asilentone

    Yes, I have been to Morning Worship at Brooklyn Bethel in 1983. I met Carey Barber before the Morning Worship started. I remember Mr. Coffee was yelling big time during the Morning Worship. It was allright experience for me.

  • SnakesInTheTower
    SnakesInTheTower

    I was there 3 weeks Brooklyn in the late 80's (and I seem to remember Mr. Coffee)... and a month in Walkill in the mid 90s., both times as a temp. One other time as a visitor. ( A friend got me a room in 90 Sands (30 story building) with a brother so old he had more seniority than most of the GB. His 20 yr old roommate had security detail that night freeing up a bed....not kindness from the brother, he expected ...or was ...paid for my stay)

    My first Morning Worship Experience.

    On the first Monday morning of my 1980s stay, I was staying in Bossert with another temp in a room so small that when I pulled out the trundle bed from under his bed, there was barely room to walk around to the bathroom. Good thing. I was so violently ill that I literally rolled off the bed and crawed the 4 feet to the bathroom. My roommate, who I had just met the night before, didnt know what to do. So instead of going to Morning Worship, once the vomiting stopped, he got me over to the infirmary. We both missed that morning. There a doctor (a sister if I recall) did an exam, gave me a shot, and sent me back to the room to bed.

    About 10 or so, Housekeeping knocked and found me in my room, dressed but still sick. They offered to come back, since they had a deep cleaning to do that day (and they didnt even know about me puking in the bathroom). I told them that I was ok enough that I would go downstairs to the Bossert Library and read a couple of hours to give them time to clean and not throw off their schedule. The sister asked if I wanted soup (apparently there was a "provision" if you were ill to bring something to the room). I declined, not able to keep anything down.

    I came back a couple of hours later to the room, all sparkly clean. About 430, the room phone rings. It was my Work Overseer. Man, was he very worried. Since it was my first day, he didnt know he had a temp until late in the day and didnt know I was missing. Apparently, I got lost in the cracks. My table head didnt report me missing, the doctor didnt report me missing, the housekeeper didnt report me as being in the room since I let her clean, and the Work Overseer didnt know to look for me until late in the day.

    ...as to the actual first experience the next day....boring boring boring.

    Funny thing happened at a dinner ...

    Dinner at Bethel is a lot more laid back than Bonafide described MW. There are less dining rooms open, and in my case I went up to (I think) 124 Columbia Heights, to one of the main dining rooms. Open seating, not meeting clothes unless it was Monday night.....but not casual either. ...more chatter....more relaxed...... 10 of us brothers were at my table,.,,,anyone could be head or foot...... More crowded than usual...it was pizza night. All the young brothers were excited by the prospect of pizza. The waiter brings over a pan of about 20 slices of pizza ...you know the kind...the rectangle school cafeteria kind.... One brother leans over and whispers in my ear (right before prayer..which is broadcast audio only) "Brother, as soon as the brother says 'Amen', grab exactly 2 pieces" When I started to ask why, he said "just do it, I'll explain in a minute." So the whole time prayer is going on, all I could think was..grab 2 slices..... AMEN ....10 PAIRS OF HANDS, INCLUDING MINE...FLEW TO THAT PAN AND GRABBED EXACTLY 2 SLICES. Immediately, a waiter brought another full pan. The same brother says..."As long as their is a single slice on the pan, the waiters wont bring us any more. This ensures that we get at least one more full pan. huh???? Those Bethelites were deprived...that pizza wasnt that good. (I went to the Pizzaria down the street on Montague the next evening and got real pizza)

    And to think I wanted to make a career of Bethel....sheesh.... a buddy of mine (so called friend..havent heard from him since I faded) was accepted back in 1988....right after our Pioneer school... he is still there....late 30s or 40 by now.... I wonder when they will put him out to Special Pioneer...

    Snakes ()

  • leavingwt
    leavingwt

    Brooklyn Bethel, 1994-2000

    Morning Worship means eating an awful breakfast with 9 people you probably don't like, six days a week.

    If your "Table Head" is an a-hole, it's an awful experience. If your Table Head is reasonable, normal person and not a Bethel Nerd/Geek/Retard, the whole experience is not that bad.

    To change table assignments, all one has to do is request a table change from Bethel Office in writing. They will change your assignment within a week, no questions asked. I made it a rule to change tables about every 8 months, so as to keep things interesting. When I landed at a bad table, I would not delay with requesting a new table.

    The very best Table Head I ever had was a Brother named William Malenfont. He was a Zone Overseer, former Gilead Missionary and worked in the Executive Office, serving as a 'Given One' on a GB Committee. He was very reasonable, humble and Christ-like. He and I never had a single issue with one another.

  • lovelylil
    lovelylil

    From reading these posts, I think I would rather have morning breakfast in prison! You seem to have more freedoms in jail then at bethel.

    I knew a girl that married and moved to bethel with her hubby. After about a year, she was having a complete nervous breakdown from the stress of it. She looked like a shell of the person she was. Now I can see why after reading these posts. How sad really. Lilly

  • What-A-Coincidence
    What-A-Coincidence

    William Malenfont .... Very awesome. I invited him to give a talk in my hall. He said, YEAH no problem. We rode up together. Very humble man.

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