Book Club, November 08, The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls

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  • TheSilence
    TheSilence

    Hello, everyone,

    Welcome to November's book club thread.

    This month we are discussing The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls. This book was suggested by myself and Scully. The format is open to any discussion you wish to have about the topic at hand, but if you're looking for something to stimulate some discussion you are welcome to use the questions below or come up with some of your own for others to answer.

    Possible Topics for Discussion

    1. Though The Glass Castle is brimming with unforgettable stories, which scenes were the most memorable for you? Which were the most shocking, the most inspiring, the funniest?

    2. Discuss the metaphor of a glass castle and what it signifies to Jeannette and her father. Why is it important that, just before leaving for New York, Jeannette tells her father that she doesn't believe he'll ever build it? (p. 238).

    3. The first story Walls tells of her childhood is that of her burning herself severely at age three, and her father dramatically takes her from the hospital: "You're safe now" (p. 14). Why do you think she opens with that story, and how does it set the stage for the rest of the memoir?

    4. Rex Walls often asked his children, "Have I ever let you down?" Why was this question (and the required "No, Dad" response) so important for him -- and for his kids? On what occasions did he actually come through for them?

    5. Jeannette's mother insists that, no matter what, "life with your father was never boring" (p. 288). What kind of man was Rex Walls? What were his strengths and weaknesses, his flaws and contradictions?

    6. Discuss Rose Mary Walls. What did you think about her description of herself as an "excitement addict"? (p. 93).

    7. Though it portrays an incredibly hardscrabble life, The Glass Castle is never sad or depressing. Discuss the tone of the book, and how do you think that Walls achieved that effect?

    8. Describe Jeannette's relationship to her siblings and discuss the role they played in one another's lives.

    9. In college, Jeannette is singled out by a professor for not understanding the plight of homeless people; instead of defending herself, she keeps quiet. Why do you think she does this?

    10. The two major pieces of the memoir -- one half set in the desert and one half in West Virginia -- feel distinct. What effect did such a big move have on the family -- and on your reading of the story? How would you describe the shift in the book's tone?

    11. Were you surprised to learn that, as adults, Jeannette and her siblings remained close to their parents? Why do you think this is?

    12. What character traits -- both good and bad -- do you think that Jeannette inherited from her parents? And how do you think those traits shaped Jeannette's life?

    13. For many reviewers and readers, the most extraordinary thing about The Glass Castle is that, despite everything, Jeannette Walls refuses to condemn her parents. Were you able to be equally nonjudgmental?

    14. Like Mary Karr's Liars' Club and Rick Bragg's All Over But the Shoutin', Jeannette Walls' The Glass Castle tells the story of a wildly original (and wildly dysfunctional) family with humor and compassion. Were there other comparable memoirs that came to mind? What distinguishes this book?

    Next Month

    Next month we will be discussing Brave New World by Aldous Huxley. This selection was suggested by jakmarx on JWD.

    If you have any book selections you would like added to the list of books to be discussed please send me a pm.

    Last Month

    Last month we discussed Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck. If you missed last month and would like to read through it or add to it the link is here:

    http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/27/166174/1.ashx

    Thanks,

    Jackie

  • TheSilence
    TheSilence
    For many reviewers and readers, the most extraordinary thing about The Glass Castle is that, despite everything, Jeannette Walls refuses to condemn her parents. Were you able to be equally nonjudgmental?

    I think I was for 2 reasons. Number one because of her tone in the story. Number two because I had to come to the same acceptance with my Dad. I think in growing up everyone has to come to a point where they realize their parents have flaws. And then you have to decide: do you blame them for being human or do you accept them for who they are, flaws and all, and love them regardless? I came to a decision to accept my dad despite his flaws because I know there are good traits in him as well... and because no matter how much he does to hurt me I do know that he loves me.

    I think Jeannette Walls can say the same thing about her parents. Despite their flaws they did have some good characteristics, too. And she did know she was loved. I think that makes a difference and I'm happy she was able to accept and love them despite their flaws.

    I enjoyed this book thoroughly despite the fact that I'm not generally a fan of non-fiction.

    Jackie

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