Did you feel like you made a difference?

by purplesofa 7 Replies latest jw friends

  • purplesofa
    purplesofa

    I have been reading The Courage to Give, Inspiring Stories of People Who Triumphed Over Tragedy to Make a Difference in the World.

    Millard Fuller's, founder of Habitat for Humanity, story is in this book.

    He became a millionaire and in the process of working too much was faced with losing his wife. He did not want to lose her and said he thought what they needed to do was give all their money away. "I think we need to give away all our money. We need to give it away and make ourselves available for whatever God wants us to do." And she agreed.

    From the book:

    A solid home can absolutely transform a child's life, but Habitat's homes transfrom the volunteers, too. How can you not feel the love that comes from dozens of people working side by side for days at a time toward a common, worthwhile goal? Yes, we get sweaty and caked with dirt and paint, and more tired than we thought possible. But we're doing the work the Lord told us to do-we are taking care of His people. What could possibly feel better?
    I doubt anyone has felt Habitat's power to transform lives more than I have. I was on the verge of losing everything that truly meant anything to me. I had gone so far down the wrong track that I hadn't even noticed how empty my life had become. But when I turned my attention to helping other people, I healed myself and I healed my relationships with the people I love.

    As I read this I thought, I never felt this way going door to door. I never really felt like I was helping anyone, my focus was on making sure I did what was required of me. Becoming a witness did not really help or heal relationships with the people I loved, it drove a wedge between us. I did not transform anyone's life. I did not get energized by what I was doing, actually I was alway burnt out.

    He goes on to say how he is the same person he was before Habitat, but his goals have changed.

    Now I am focused on building the Kingdom of God on earth. And my little part of that is to build houses for the poor. You can profess to be religious from today until tomorrow, but if you don't back up those beliefs with appropriate action, then they're like cotton candy--they look good, but there's nothing to sink your teeth into. I lived a life of cotton candy for years. I thank God the He opened up my eyes in time for me to make more of a difference in my life than that.

    Did you ever really feel like your preaching work was making a difference in the world? Did you ever feel great for the preaching work you did? Did you feel like you were inspired or inspired anyone?

    purps

  • zagor
    zagor

    I think I had a privilage to meet a lot of great people, academics, thinkers, visionaries, writers and ordinarly falks with lots of brain and wits (even some celebrities back there) all of whom taught me how to think so if preaching work was making any difference it was in my own life and making me realize that 'rock solid faith' wasn't that stable after all. Another side effect was being able to converse with any of them and make them pose and think some of them coming up with even deeper answers. So preaching work was basically my education out of watchtower, it was an avenue to see the other side of things they never told me about.

  • purplesofa
    purplesofa

    I felt like I learned alot from the people while preaching as well!!!!

    I just find it very sad that Witnesses don't have that wonderful feeling of helping people like other organizations that do.

    And I found Habitat for Humanity great as they gave the basic needs to people and then those people lives were made better that way.

    If a person rejects what the witnesses say at the door, the witnesses in turn reject them.

  • Quandry
    Quandry

    I liked to feel that I was making a difference. I would think, "Well, the people at least see us on the street, and that is a witness. Also, the ones that are accompanying me are encouraged."That was generally because I had to talk myself into going out in service, as no one was home most of the time.

    I was one of the sincere ones.

    I kept the house and car clean, viewed hall cleaning as a divine assignment, etc. And I did have a few studies and a couple that were baptized. They are in another state and we lost touch years ago. I wonder how they are and if they are still "in."

  • Farkel
    Farkel

    :Did you ever really feel like your preaching work was making a difference in the world?

    You're joking, right?

    Farkel, 25 years experience being a joker in a world of sad and very sick jokes

  • lonestar63
    lonestar63

    I donated my time and my crew to help build 2 Habitat Houses. It was a good feeling, but at the same time i felt many were trying to make homeowners out of folks that really weren't homeowners. It's a good cause however, and i'm sure it has made a difference in many folks lives.

    As far as field ministry, it was a chore, and i never felt like i made a difference. I never felt worthy, because of the never ending beatings we got at the conventions about doing more in the ministry. I tried to Aux Pio when i could, and that was a miserable month indeed.

    I respect anybody that is willing to work hard, and some of the most lazy people i've ever been around were the reg pio in our congregation.

  • WTWizard
    WTWizard

    When I was a Jehovah's Witless, I made no difference whatsoever. Those who responded and took the littera-trash were the ones that were barely hanging in there, usually very old and sickly (and soon would be dead). I felt it was the most complete waste of my time I have ever seen--working for bigger numbers in the yearbooks and in the January Washtowel is not my idea of working what is good.

    A better description for field circus is dead works.

  • I quit!
    I quit!

    I guess at first I did when I believed I was delivering a life saving message. Now I see it was a complete waste of time for the house holder and myself. As witnesses we did nothing to make our world a better place. The church I attend always has barrel to place food to be donated to less fortunate people. They feed and cloth the homeless without looking down on them. Other religious organization in my area are involved similar things. I view the Watchtower as parasite the feeds off of the work of others. The aren't above receiving help but they don't give any. They don't produce any doctors, nurses, scientist but have no qualms about receiving the benifits of their work but at the same time looking down on them for going to school and learning something rather than spend their life hand out magazines for the WT.

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