Well...my family is moving back to PA in May. As a result, my wife wrote a 2nd letter to the brothers to see if she can get reinstated before she leave. Her first letter was ok but their response was, of course, ATTEND MORE MEETINGS!!
I'm still not sure if they will accept her again simply because she leaves early for the tuesday night meeting because my daughter is on schedule for her bedtime stuff. But i dont know, simply because how easy-going the JWs and Elders been lately. She still have JW family in PA, but they are LESS adament that her mother and father.
Oh yea, even though I know what to expect from the Memorial, I cant wait to confront her about it afterwards, she'll have no defense against it except avoiding the subject!