by Witness 007 7 Replies latest watchtower scandals
Yes I did enjoy what I call "the age of freedom" where I did not have to hide my "movie" collection. Now my wife wants to have a clear conscience and be a good Witness so the collection has to go underground again. I feel like the Berlin Wall was torn down.....and then rebuilt a couple years later!
If I'm lucky she won't "confess" to the Elders....otherwise I will have to fake repentence.....boo hoo I'm sooo sorry Jehover I promise to be good....until the Elders leave he he.
Its ok 007, us sisters get these crazy ideas now and again, it'll pass.
I remember getting all sanctamonious about the Harry Potter books and DVD's one time and they all went in the trash.
A few weeks later I felt stupid and went out and bought them again. I just made sure any visiting JW's didn't see them on the shelf.
007,
Are you the only party in your relationship that ever has to compromise? Just wondering.
nj
Seems so at the moment! I'm back peddling my life abit.....want to be seen as a good Witness so I can use Brothers.
Good luck with that. I hope you don't get tired of always being the one to give in, that's not how healthy relationships function.
nj
My wife has not been well mentally so fighting with her is very easy, but since she's on the mend I would rather assist her anyway possible to get back to her normal self...this requires some sacrifice for the moment...if our relationship ends at least I tried from my side. Progress is being made...her guilt is not helping her so out with the movies!
So. you've been making porn movies w her? It would be a shame to lose all those memories....
S
I'm not trying to judge you or criticize you 007. I've been married for 24 years and when one person is the only one giving it will make the other person resentful to say the least.
In the medical field we are taught not to feed into patients delusions. Do you think maybe you are prolonging the ineveitable with her? When you feel she is all better and better able to handle your disinterest in the JW's will she try the same tactics again? Will this be a repeat to get you to come around and do what she wants? Is she at all concerned about how you feel or just her own wants?
Just asking of course. You and only you have to live the life you are living, I just hope you are not doing it for the end results to be the same. Wasting even more of this very short life we have.
I'm sincere when I say good luck to you and I hope this all works out for you and the wife.
nj
