I suppose there exist endless accounts of events that have resulted in many of us venting on this board. , However, I believe we can narrow the reasons down to a common denominator .... we are not of their sort ...
Being a JW does not work for most. Damages occur when those in the environment, inside and out of the family, use a "one size must fit all" concept of spirituality. Those of us who do not conform with the wishes of others and believe as they do, sooner or later, will have little choice but to agree with that Italian defense lawyer Johnny Cockeroni:
"if it doesn't a-fit, you must a-quit"