THink about it, what if your young daughter was assaulted sexually by someone in the congregation.
You go to the elders and their is a JC.
The elders of course want to talk to the girl alone without the parents present and then proceed to ask the girl sexually explicit questions.
I've been in that situation and let me tell you, the JC is a rape in itself. You can check out numerous threads on this board and also on Silentlambs and you will see that I am not the only one that felt that way.
Maybe a jury would think so too?