Dubs are a strange bunch...
When I started in "da truuff", I found it very difficult to make friends. Personally, I think it's because so many people have the congregation lives and the at home lives. Congregational witnesses are near perfect, just what they want you to think they are. At home witnesses are more relaxed, usually enjoy drinking, swear a bit, or do something that is just "not right" or perfect. (these are generalized comments)
Later, I just didn't give a shit and started to hang out with the party-warrior witlesses. Every weekend, we would go out and party - drink, get smashed, etc... pretty lame life, really.
So who do you want to hang with? Oversensitive try to be like Jesus freaks, middle of the road who are very protective lest they be found out, or the party animals? Personally, I choose neither.