the best birthday ever?

by highdose 7 Replies latest jw friends

  • highdose
    highdose

    next week is my 30th. i have never celebrated my birthday due to being brought up in the cult.

    this year i intend to change all that! but as a novice in the birthday department i wonder if anyone could tell me...

    what makes the best birthday ever?

  • Hopscotch
    Hopscotch

    Well highdose I have never celebrated a birthday either and this year will be my first too so I can't really give you too many hints but one thing I think would make it fantastic is to celebrate it with people who really care for you unconditionally and are happy for it to be your day. That's what I'm hoping for mine anyway.

    Have lots of fun planning your birthday. All the best.

    Hopscotch

  • jamiebowers
    jamiebowers

    Good friends, good food and good cake!

  • isaacaustin
    isaacaustin

    Basically, small is ok...just alot of love and great friends. I have been where you were at. Real genuine people make for a great party.

  • QuestioningEverything
    QuestioningEverything

    Cake!! And dinner out to your favorite restaurant! Happy Birthday to you!!

  • rebel8
    rebel8

    Your favorite meal ever*, a boat ride or hike to a beautiful spot, a nice glass of wine while watching the sunset, a bday dessert, good music, massage, wearing your favorite outfit, and sex.

    *Obviously this is eggplant parmesan and cannoli. Obviously.

  • carla
    carla

    Geez, I must of lost my mind for a minute, I thought you were asking what was your best birthday ever? then I remembered where I was!

    The best birthday's are ones someone remembers and surprises you with a token of love (could be hand made, note of love, etc.. not necessarily store bought). Rebel's description sounds pretty good too!!

    My jw, in his pre jw days once threw me surprise party complete with a band! Now I hardly remember how old I am half the time! Kids do their best to celebrate but some years it is just not the same because I remember when I did have many birthday just as Rebel said, minus the eggplant though.

  • Mickey mouse
    Mickey mouse

    I'll tell you what made my best birthday ever: My husband taking me out for a meal to celebrate it.

    It happened for the first time this year.

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