http://www.factnet.org/rancho1.htm
http://www.factnet.org/headlines/destructive_cult_warning_signs.html
I found this information useful. There is heaps more out there too. Just do a google search on mind control / cult etc.
Hope it helps!
It helped me look at things from an 'outside the box, looking in' perspective rather than an 'inside the box attempting to look out but not really succeeding' one.