single life and oompa steppin out....

oompa

my cool dfd son and i are now soooo frikkin close....god i love him to death....he is 24 and really finding his groove and i never shunned him a sec since he was dfd at 17 anyway...but omg the bond we are now having....and he is so glad i am out on my own and being true to myself

he invited me to a big party a couple of weeks ago....posted about it with cool pics on facebook....a delayed wedding reception for a couple and a going away as well since they are moving of continent....she used to work for me and what a club i found at the party....she is dfd...husband...all friends...my son....even a coulple of old biz partners of mine were there from a crazy lil biz we started once..........in all there were over 30 former dubs at this kickass rocking beautiful party!!!!!

and there were even 4 dubs there....real slacker...nonjudgemental friends........ahhhhhhh it was a small club and a great time

so its been a few weeks since i left my wife....it is really hard seeing her suffer...i hate it...but hope she will be happier in the long run....life in general is really weird right now....for sure have NOT found my groove yet....do you have any idea how much shit you need when you move out??...and did you know that aldis grocery store does not even have bags to put your groceries in???...weird...i mean i knew costco does not....but a grocery store?....lol...and i am gettin damm good a laundry.....not doing much ironing...just hate it!!!.........and OMG food seems to last forever!...geeze i must really not eat a lot..............oompa

Snoozy

You are so funny!

I remember thinking the same thing when I went to an Aldi's grocery store here.I remember saying, What? I have to bag them myself? What tha?.......they do have bags..they used to charge a nickle for them but I think they are now free..and they also used to charge a quarter to use a basket..but you got it back when you returned the cart..I think they quit doing that also.

What gets me is when I go to a Dierbergs or Schnucks grocery store and they are bagging my groceries..they just leave them on the platform..like..hey lady, put them in your cart yourself!...makes me go grrrrr...........

At least you didn't have to learn how to pump your own gas like I did..major accomplishment for me.. (Plus checking the oil and air)

oompa

lmao...no the carts are a quarter now!...still chained!...and there were no bags or boxes at all!..and i could not even find a damm basket...i took four cartons of pudding out of the box and used that!!............and ya we all pump our own gas in nc....i think only nc and nj have mandatory pumpers for you....btw...i have always liked grocery shopping...just never done much at aldis....but i do like the prices and the oddity of the place..........oompa

man there are so many chick opportunities at wally world and grocery stores....i am just not a bar kind of pick up the chick guy........

AdaMakawee

Ah take it easy Oomps, you'll get the hang of it all. Takes time, dating is hard stuff after you've been out of the game for so long.

I look forward to hearing more of your saga, though, very entertaining.

Ada

The Almighty Homer

Good to hear your making out alright, its an adjustment alright after you've been married for awhile, been there myself

getting away from Jehovahism must feel good though

leavingwt

It's really great that you have your son.

jamiebowers

I'm so glad that you're finally happy. Just in case you don't know this, dry cleaners and full service laundramats offer press only service, since you don't like to iron. Also Aldi's is a good store for some things but not so much for others, depending on your taste in food. A trip to a regular grocery store may be in order once in a while. Why not buy the canvas grocery bags for Aldi's shopping? And dollar stores have dcent prices on housewares like brooms, mops, shower curtains, throw rugs and kitchen towels and dish cloths.

oompa

leavingwt..........it truly, truly is...at least we have each other even if soooooo much of our history of life is gone....just treating us like we are dead...friends and family......it makes me feel so good about my own self to know that even as a dub i never shunned him nor any other dub who was dfd....i am so non judgmental that i could never be appointed an elder even though they tried......oompa

single life and oompa steppin out....

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