Just because things are bad now does not mean things will always be bad

by Elsewhere 7 Replies latest jw friends

  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere

    I was thinking that I would like to post this in hope it will help anyone out there who might have the same problem.

    After leaving the WTS, one of the most difficult things I've had to get over was depression and anxiety. For many years before and after I left the WTS I would fall into terrible depressions or experience terrible anxiety about.... whatever. You name it and I could become seriously anxious about it to the point of being paralyzed and unable to address the situation. This affected my work, relationships, friendships and my ability to just live life.

    It took me a long time to realize it, but when I was down with depression or anxiety I would be in a state of mind in which I was thinking that things would *always* be that bad. I would *always* feel that bad and I could not see any future time in which I would not be feeling that bad. Despair would set in.

    It took a long time for me to figure this out: Just because things might be bad does not mean they will remain bad forever. Things change. Things always get better. Get through whatever the problem is and things will get better.

    Even now, from time to time, such as when things are hard at work, I will find myself thinking like that. I'll remind myself that troubles pass and things do get better. Things always get better.

  • DaCheech
    DaCheech

    i believe that ANYBODY can start all over again, no matter what they lost or endured

  • Newborn
    Newborn

    Dear Elsewhere, thanks for your post...I feel exactly the same way. I've also suffered from anxiety many years and I also eat medicine for this.

    One good thing with getting older and gaining experience is that you come to realise that exact thing " things may be bad now...but the sun will always shine again and you can feel happy again".

    Love

    Newborn

  • LouBelle
    LouBelle

    This too shall pass.

  • startingover
    startingover

    Thanks for the post Elsewhere. I can relate to your feelings. Excellent advice!

  • creativhoney
    creativhoney

    I suffered depression for about a year and a half. the Psychologist said it was grief, added to this I had quit my job so I had no focus at all. I think it helps tremedously if you have a focus - I think I felt like I had no identity. I needed the time to heal, but Ive gone back to university now to get myself back into my career, - I teach sixth form (college) and have a PGCE but wanted to switch to secondary (high school) so i need the QTS (qualified teacher status) for that, plus I will teach computers rather than graphic design, and its unbelievable how much my feelings have changed -

    a year ago felt total despair. this dissipated to sadness, which I would say in the last two months was just residual. - but the week I knew my induction was coming I felt a complete change - it was like I had an identity again, - career girl.

  • truthseekeriam
    truthseekeriam

    Thanks Elsewhere,

    I needed to hear that today.

  • ninja
    ninja

    come on ....snap out of it you lot....you are all imagining it

    just kidding....hang in there guys....

    it's like the extra hot curry I had tonight....this too shall pass....rather quickly

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