Boyzone......I agree with everything you say , in particular you said, "and some shun us with relish."
I get shunned regualrly along with some others who left. I had an experience last week in a supermarkert from a mother and daughter double act.
I was walking up the 'milk' aisle when I saw them, but kept my head high as I always do. She looked up and saw me just as I was approaching and shunned me with great flair. I got mad and almost chased them round the shop to find them. The reason I got mad is this...
The daughter, last year got into trouble when she had underage sex with a brother. She was 14 at the time. It was a scandal in the local KH but the father of the girl remained an elder throughout the whole thing. She got reproved. This Mother and Father, also have a son who was great friends with my hubby, but who encouraged my husband to continue cheating on me. This son, also had, and still does have a problem with alcohol. He has been arrested and put in jail for drunk and disorderly behaviour and has also had his license taken away for a year due to driving under the influence.
I was incensed because......THEY were the ones shunning ME!
I only had a difference of opinion.....I questioned what they believe!......whereas, with these two, have not only 'sinned', but also BROKEN THE LAW. That Mother and daughter view me with disgust....and treated me accordingly. And yes, if I got them, they would have heard what I had to say. I am proud of leaving the org and I have no fear now.
By doing this......they are going against scripture, and are showing the opposite of Mercy. It is a cruel and loathsome act.