TO JOURLES- PLZ READ THIS JOURLES

by JT 2 Replies latest jw friends

  • JT
    JT

    JOURLES says of his mom:

    It does not matter what the Society says about the destruction of 99.99% of the earth's population. What matters is that those who are still in the org will always cling to what they believe is true to them. Take for instance my mother. She believes, even after pointing out what the WTS's website says, that everyone that is not a witness will be destroyed at armageddon. When my uncle died a few years ago, she said that it was best for him to die rather than for him to remain living during armageddon, as he would be killed later with no chance of a resurrection. She now says the same for my grandfather who is fairly close to dying. "I hope he dies soon so that he can be resurrected in the paradise." BITCH!
    I cannot begin to express the loathing hatred that I feel towards my own mother
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    Many of us here fully understand why you feel this way as well as why you said the things that you did. that being said i along with many here suggest that you may want to ck out some site that deal with HIGH CONTROL groups I highly recommend starting here at Randy's site

    and there are many more as well- feel free to email anyone here and they can share with you similar feelings towards family who too made some of the most silliest comments

    Trust me on this one- once you come to fully understand the power of high control groups your view will change- in fact for many of us it has gone from sheer hatred to down righ PITY

    as i tell my wife after all is said and done the JW will be left holding a WORTHLESS coupon for thier "Beach Front Property Timeshare"

    and when they flip it over it will say- YOU GOT WEEK 53

    yes the joke is on them how sad

    james

    http://www.freeminds.org/psych/psych.htm

  • Jourles
    Jourles

    Thanks for the note. I understand fully the concept of mind-control as I was under the same irrational school of thought up until about 4-5 years ago.

    Physically, I am still "in," albeit inactive according to the Gospel of the Watchotwer. If I were still single, I would have totally freed myself long ago. BUT, as many others here have the same problem as I, I have both sides of the family fully dedicated to the org. Without wanting to destroy my marriage, I still attend off and on with my wife. I no longer go in service or give talks for the school. Whenever elders try to 'guide' me, I just tell them that I am in a thinking stage of my life as I want to make sure what is "truth," and that I thank them for their time but I am not ready to commit myself further at this point.

    It is slow going, but eventually I have a feeling that my wife will begin to have more doubts as time progresses. It's funny that I feel closer to her when we get through debating about something degrading to the WTS. At least she does not cry anymore when I bring something up to her(UN for instance).

  • JT
    JT

    HEY MAN GLAD TO HERE THAT you are hanging in there

    look feel free to email me if you like

    this net provides all of us with the needed support to deal with stuff

    you are like my fatherinlaw still has the wife in and it can be hard at times

    but hang in there man

    shoot me an email if you like

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