I know a woman on Facebook who recently lost her husband unexpectedly, and at a relatively young age. (My age, and I still consider myself relatively young.)
So, here she is, still raising some of her children, finding herself looking for work in her mid-Forties with few salable job skills in a depressed economy, and missing her husband terribly. She often posts comments at 2 a.m. saying she can't sleep, too many worries, etc.
So, what kind of help does she get? Posts that say:
"Don't worry, the New System will be here soon!"
Once, she posted that she was worried about the stress of life getting to her. One extremely foolish woman replied that she should "stand in the back yard and scream it out. She did it during her troubling times, and if it freaked out the neighbors, so what?" (On that post, I sent her a PM stating that if she was really having difficulties, she needed to consult with a professional. She thanked me for the advice, but I'm sure she's relying more on the "power of prayer" than anything else).
So much of this stuff she gets is in the "keep warm and well fed" style of "help" that I just want to puke.