Fred Phelps' estranged son speaks

by MsDucky 6 Replies latest watchtower child-abuse

  • MsDucky
    MsDucky

    What does this remind you of?

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    TOPEKA — The estranged son of a controversial Kansas pastor encouraged people to feel sympathy for members of his father's church, "at least for the young children stuck in that situation."

    Nate Phelps, 51, spoke in Topeka on Saturday, marking his first trip in 20 years to the city where his father, Fred Phelps, runs Westboro Baptist Church. He described the fear, intimidation and abuse he endured before leaving the family and church on his 18th birthday.

    He said that while society is quick to take steps to protect children, it seems "curiously blind" when religious beliefs jeopardize a child's safety. He also predicted that the group would eventually die out.

    None of its members picketed the speech.

    Westboro Baptist members, many of them Fred Phelps' children and grandchildren, have conducted anti-homosexual picketing in Topeka and other cities since 1991. They began picketing soldiers' funerals in recent years, saying military deaths were the work of a wrathful God who punishes the United States for tolerating homosexuality.

    The Supreme Court will hear one such case this fall in which a soldier's family sued the church to halt the demonstrations. A lower court ordered the soldier's family to pay the church's court costs — a $16,500 judgment that the congregation said it would use for more protests.

    The Supreme Court said it would consider whether the protesters' actions were protected by the First Amendment.

    Westboro Baptist first grabbed widespread notice in 1998, when members appeared outside the funeral of Matthew Shepard, the gay University of Wyoming student whose murder drew national attention.

    Nate Phelps, who describes himself as an atheist, said he believed his father's group would eventually become a footnote in Topeka history. But he encouraged people to do whatever they could to ensure Westboro Baptist's actions "fall on barren soil and are cast away like dust in the wind."

    About 675 people attended Saturday's free talk, said Ryan Seddon, event coordinator for Topeka Performing Arts Center. The event's sponsors were the Richard Dawkins Foundation; the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Center; and the Metropolitan Community Church of Topeka.

    Nate Phelps described his father as "combative, angry, hateful, destructive." He also said he hadn't talked much about his origins since fleeing Topeka at the stroke of midnight on his 18th birthday.

    But in 2008, the media began writing about his father and calling him for comment, he said.

    "That forced me to think about whether I have an obligation to speak out," he said. "I have a unique voice and maybe some positive things could come out of that."

    He also said he is writing a book and working with different organizations "for changes in laws to make it more difficult for people to abuse their children based on religion."



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  • BabaYaga
    BabaYaga
    "That forced me to think about whether I have an obligation to speak out," he said. "I have a unique voice and maybe some positive things could come out of that."

    He also said he is writing a book and working with different organizations "for changes in laws to make it more difficult for people to abuse their children based on religion."

    Awesome. I have seen interviews with him before, he was horribly abused yet has a very healthy perspective... he shows much more concern and love than hatred. We could all take a lesson from that.

  • peaches
    peaches

    thank you....

  • MsDucky
    MsDucky

    BabaYaga and Peaches, I'm glad to hear that you two thought it was post worthy!

  • White Dove
    White Dove

    I'm ashamed to be posting a comment so late

    Nate's speaking out like this is a good example for many XJW's. I say "many" because not all are free to do so, yet.

    Just came out to my dad and said that "I cannot support worldwide genocide no matter how holy the war is. A loving god would never hurt people like that."

    It's a small step in the grand scheme of things, but it's a huge step for me to take.

    No doubt, he told Grandma, but he's still sending me nice e-mails, and Grandma is still as loving as ever.

    He didn't post a response to my statement, though. Glad he's minding his own biz on this.

    So far, so good!

  • BabaYaga
    BabaYaga

    White Dove said:

    "I cannot support worldwide genocide no matter how holy the war is. A loving god would never hurt people like that."

    Bravo!!!

  • PSacramento
    PSacramento

    I think that, power turly does corrupt and even more so whenit is religious power.

    That kind of power is the power to control lives, control the will of others really.

    It's a horrific thing when we give that kind of power to others and that is what is done.

    See, they can't take that power or force it one us, we have to give it to them, and so many do.

    If one truly reads the NT with our own eyes and with no notion put there by others what we can see is a loving and hopeful message, one of love, peace, tolearance and accepteance, not one of war and genocide.

    Paul said is best, "love, faith and hope and the greatest of these is love".

    With a message like that, how can ANYONE give into the hate being spewed by people like this poor kids father?

    Breaks my heart.

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