is it ok for an agnostic to pray to God?

by poor places 8 Replies latest jw friends

  • poor places
    poor places

    I used to say a prayer most nights before I fell asleep, and I felt real comfort. No matter how much anxiety I had, praying made me feel that I was ok because a higher power (one who had counted the hairs of my head and who considered me worth many sparrows!) would take care of everything.

    Now, after my JW awakening, I'm an agnostic, and I feel less comfort than I did before, because I don't know if anyone powerful is looking after me. Oddly enough, though, when I pray, I still comfort, even though I feel doubtful. I still feel as though things will turn out ok when I pray. My problem is that I feel like a wishy-washy phony when I pray to a God who I'm not even sure exists. I feel like a silly, desperate person when I pray to a power that may not exist. I feel like a person who is, as they say, "grasping at straws." But then I think to myself that it doesn't matter if I'm grasping at straws; if I feel comforted, what's the difference? But I'm often torn between these two lines of though.

    I'm sure that tons of people on this board have experienced these feelings. If you could share your views or thoughts on this type of problem, it might be very helpful for me.

  • leavingwt
    leavingwt

    If it feels good, do it. (The WT warned you about us.)

  • tec
    tec

    Well, I don't think you're going to find a believer to tell you not to pray, even if you doubt :)

    Pray if you find comfort in it. You're not going to hurt anyone. I've had doubts myself - I don't know of anyone who hasn't at some point(s) in their lives - but I still prayed.

    Tammy

  • Elgiard
    Elgiard

    I think acknowledging that you don't know is more intellectually honest than convincing yourself that you were sure, and isn't phony at all. Is it an act of desperation? Maybe, but not necessarily, and if it is, then so what? Every living thing in the history of the universe has done desperate things at some point in time. It's okay to be desperate, especially when so much is hidden and uncertain. We are truly walking through "the valley of the shadow". And don't forget that if some kind of god does exists, then it doesn't want you to be sure, or it would reveal itself more plainly to you.

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow

    Everybody's agnostic at times. Pray, of course!

  • RosePetal
    RosePetal

    Hi 'poor place' I have just sent you a PM [I forgot to title it]

    RosePetal

  • cyberjesus
    cyberjesus

    it is good for an agnostic to pray to god, and also for an atheist and for a christian and for a satanist... it is ok for you to do anything you want to do. I dont think you will get an answer still but be my guest :-) pray for me too please. At least someone will be thinking of me during your prayer...you.

  • leavingwt
    leavingwt

    Related. . .

    Thinking About God Calms Believers, Stresses Atheists

    The researchers measured brain waves for a particular kind of distress response while participants made mistakes on a test.

    Those who had been prepared with religious thoughts had a less prominent response to mistakes than those who hadn’t.

    “Eighty-five percent of the world has some sort of religious beliefs,” says Michael Inzlicht, who cowrote the study with Alexa Tullett, both at the University of Toronto-Scarborough.

    “I think it behooves us as psychologists to study why people have these beliefs; exploring what functions, if any, they may serve.”

    With two experiments, the researchers showed that when people think about religion and God, their brains respond differently—in a way that lets them take setbacks in stride and react with less distress to anxiety-provoking mistakes.

    Participants either wrote about religion or did a scrambled word task that included religion and God-related words.

    Then the researchers recorded their brain activity as they completed a computerized task—one that was chosen because it has a high rate of errors.

    The results showed that when people were primed to think about religion and God, either consciously or unconsciously, brain activity decreases in areas consistent with the anterior cingulate cortex (ACC). The ACC is associated with a number of things, including regulating bodily states of arousal and alerting us when things are going wrong.

    Interestingly, atheists reacted differently. When they were unconsciously primed with God-related ideas, their ACC increased its activity. The researchers suggest that for religious people, thinking about God may provide a way of ordering the world and explaining apparently random events and thus reduce their feelings of distress.

    In contrast, for atheists, thoughts of God may contradict the meaning systems they embrace and thus cause them more distress.

    “Thinking about religion makes you calm under fire. It makes you less distressed when you’ve made an error,” says Inzlicht.

    “We think this can help us understand some of the really interesting findings about people who are religious. Although not unequivocal, there is some evidence that religious people live longer and they tend to be happier and healthier.”

    Atheists shouldn’t despair, though. “We think this can occur with any meaning system that provides structure and helps people understand their world.” Maybe atheists would do better if they were primed to think about their own beliefs, he says.

    http://www.livescience.com/health/thinking-about-god-calms-believers-100805.html

  • tec
    tec

    Thinking About God Calms Believers, Stresses Atheists

    Kay, for some reason that made me laugh out loud :)

    Going to go read the article now.

    Tammy

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